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Films I have never watched because I know they would upset me..

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Shinamae Mon 17-Oct-22 09:46:35

Watership down
Warhorse

GrannyGravy13 Mon 17-Oct-22 09:56:22

Titanic
Gladiator
Boy in the striped pyjamas

Along with any violent films

nanna8 Mon 17-Oct-22 09:59:11

I started watching that series on Geoffrey Dahmer. Dreadful , had to stop. Also some of the ones about concentration camps, especially the ones with actual footage.

PoppyFlower Mon 17-Oct-22 10:07:20

Any TV drama/film about murder, unless it's a traditional huddunit like Poirot.. That's a lot of stuff to avoid. ?

GrannyGravy13 Mon 17-Oct-22 10:08:47

PoppyFlower

Any TV drama/film about murder, unless it's a traditional huddunit like Poirot.. That's a lot of stuff to avoid. ?

I agree, which is why I read or play various games in my iPad

Chestnut Mon 17-Oct-22 10:17:52

I used to love horror films, Hammer mostly, gothic horror is great fun. Then along came The Exorcist and we went to see it at the cinema. That changed everything. I was not a horror fan after that.

Can't watch:
anything ghostly or demonic
anything gory with body parts
anything with animals suffering

TerriBull Mon 17-Oct-22 11:30:30

I've never seen The Shining or Scar Face. I wish I hadn't seen Silence of the Lambs, I hated that scene where some innocent girl is duped into helping the mass murderer put a table or some such item in a van by edging her into the vehicle first to trap her, that haunted me. I don't like anything with torture in it, or horrible things happening to children or animals.

I loved Gladiator, Russell Crow was well fit in it grin all downhill from then on though.

I was going to watch "Blonde" on Netflix Marilyn Monroe biopic but critics unanimously slammed it for the way she is depicted at the hands of men in it, some of it true no doubt, but the general consensus was that it was pretty horrible viewing.

Zoejory Mon 17-Oct-22 11:32:45

I can watch horror and gore. I've seen some pretty dreadful films which would horrify many.

However I am unable to watch anything where a dog dies. I go as far as googling does the dog die in whatever film is on.

PinkCosmos Mon 17-Oct-22 11:35:45

Schindler's List

I watched Sophie's Choice before I had children but I couldn't watch that again now - three children later.

I won't watch Dumbo (the original) again as I was so upset when the Dumbo's mother was singing Baby of Mine to Dumbo. I know it's only a cartoon but it is bringing tears to me eyes just thinking about it.

Kate1949 Tue 18-Oct-22 11:05:21

I watched The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas not realising how traumatic it would be. shock

Grandma70s Tue 18-Oct-22 11:19:00

This is timely for me. I very rarely watch films at all, but I was curious about Schindler’s List. I avoided it for very many years, but a few days ago I decided not to be so cowardly. It couldn’t tell me anything I didn’t know - and it didn’t. Awful as it was, it could have been a lot worse. I’m glad I watched it.

I think I’ll give The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas a miss, though.

Dee1012 Tue 18-Oct-22 11:29:02

Zoejory

I can watch horror and gore. I've seen some pretty dreadful films which would horrify many.

However I am unable to watch anything where a dog dies. I go as far as googling does the dog die in whatever film is on.

I'm the same Zoejory, I think because of my background (criminal justice), there's very little that can shock me any more, quite sad really.

Babs758 Tue 18-Oct-22 11:30:53

I thought the Boy in the Striped Pajamas was very good.
I gave up on Blonde - it was horrible.

Greyduster Tue 18-Oct-22 11:35:35

Titanic
The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas (started reading the book - couldn’t finish it?. Ditto the film).

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 11:36:13

I had to read American Psycho in small installments.
It was gratifyingly horrible.

Greyduster Tue 18-Oct-22 11:36:36

I wish I had never watched “The Last King of Scotland”.

MagicWand Tue 18-Oct-22 11:54:45

Sophie’s Choice.

Made the mistake of reading the book to find out what the choice was. Gave me nightmares for weeks. If you don’t know, keep it that way!

Grandmabatty Tue 18-Oct-22 12:02:58

I can watch horror with gore and I particularly like zombie films, however I can't watch films where women are treated horribly or tortured. Not films where animals die. Old Yeller and Bambi were early experiences of that.

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 12:03:35

I have discovered videos of baby monkey "pets" on youtube that are totally and utterly foul.

They are something I wish I could unsee., and they are real, in the here and now.
I have rarely seen such depravity and animal abuse.

Goodbyetoallthat Tue 18-Oct-22 12:17:20

A Clockwork Orange.

Maggierose Tue 18-Oct-22 12:49:39

I started to watch Blonde but had to stop when the mother tries to drown Norma Jean in the bath. I was able to read and enjoy the book though, some years ago.

ixion Tue 18-Oct-22 13:16:09

Kate1949

I watched The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas not realising how traumatic it would be. shock

I felt obliged to speak to the staff in our local Oxfam bookshop, where they had placed said book in the Children's Read section.
?

Georgesgran Tue 18-Oct-22 13:25:39

The Green Mile - watched it once and after I’d used the box of tissues, I had to resort to a towel!
Dumbo - Baby of mine - feeling teary, just remembering it.

tinaf1 Tue 18-Oct-22 13:26:37

When I was working asked ladies/girls I worked with to recommend a decent film to watch as I had a evening on my own. Husband and children all out .
Said I fancied a comedy nothing too heavy, one girl recommended Terms of Endearment Shirley Mclaine Debra Winger and Jack Nicholson, so off I pop to video store well before Netflix and get my dvd
Watching it kept on watching thinking it’s bound to liven up soon watched it right until the bitter end , won’t say so no spoilers sat there in tears for the rest of the evening
Lesson learned some people have a strange sense of humor

Chestnut Tue 18-Oct-22 13:49:12

ixion

Kate1949

I watched The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas not realising how traumatic it would be. shock

I felt obliged to speak to the staff in our local Oxfam bookshop, where they had placed said book in the Children's Read section.
?

Someone said on a thread that The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas was being shown at school to fairly young children, possibly primary age. I wouldn't show that to any child under the age of 16. Do they explain to the children that the boys are being gassed? Don't teachers have any common sense?