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Films I have never watched because I know they would upset me..

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Shinamae Mon 17-Oct-22 09:46:35

Watership down
Warhorse

Chestnut Wed 19-Oct-22 00:04:59

MayBee70 I don’t remember the scene with the dog but if I watched that scene now I would imagine that I would be horrified that the dog had cropped ears.
If you saw two dogs fighting a tiger I don't think you'd be worrying about their ears being cropped. It was a horrible scene. Very disappointed in Disney, and I can't remember what he did to Old Yeller either.

MayBee70 Tue 18-Oct-22 23:58:37

Wikipedia says A Dog of Flanders had a happy ending. So maybe then as now I cry as much when a film has a happy ending as I do when it’s sad. I bought the dvd of Old Yeller a while back and still haven’t watched it. I think that is sad….

MayBee70 Tue 18-Oct-22 23:54:58

Is that the John Mills film. If so I was too busy gazing adoringly at Tommy Kirk who I had a huge crush on ( although I didn’t quite know that it was a crush). I don’t remember the scene with the dog but if I watched that scene now I would imagine that I would be horrified that the dog had cropped ears. I assume that Americans were cropping dogs ears back then. A film that broke my heart as a child was A Dog of Flanders although I can’t remember what happened.

Chestnut Tue 18-Oct-22 23:46:32

Shinamae As a child I don't think I thought the falling horses actually got hurt in movies. It wasn't real to me somehow. However, you are correct that there was no animal welfare in movies back then, so I couldn't watch them now.

Anyone remember Swiss Family Robinson? I tried watching it with a grandson and was shocked to see some dreadful animal cruelty. Two Great Dane dogs fighting with a tiger, and it was real. I wouldn't watch that movie again.

MayBee70 Tue 18-Oct-22 23:28:14

My grandson was traumatised when he watched The Velveteen Rabbit. Not being American I didn’t know the story and should have found out what the story was before we watched it together.

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 23:14:03

I remember a film called the nine lives of Thomasina, about a cat.
I can't recall anything other than it was very sad.

Shinamae Tue 18-Oct-22 23:10:41

hollysteers

Many already mentioned, but Whatever happened to Baby Jane gave me the creeps for days.
I ran out of the cinema screaming as a child watching Disney’s Alice in Wonderland.
Love horses, so anything sad about them is a no no.
Hated seeing horses falling over in cowboy films, wasn’t worried about the humans, they had choice, the horses didn’t.

I think What Ever Happened To Baby Jane was a brilliant film. I also used to get upset when horses were shot or fell in old cowboy films,in fact I would go running upstairs and throw myself on my bed crying my eyes out and no matter how much l was told it was’nt real made no difference (I have a feeling that back in the day when those old black-and-white cowboy films were made that the horses were actually hurt because I don’t think there was much animal welfare back then)…?

GagaJo Tue 18-Oct-22 22:48:35

I Daniel Blake. I can imagine the awfulness of it. I'm a coward not to watch it. It's real life for some.

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 22:19:19

Lassie films were popular with us.
All crying our eyes out, watching poor lassie limp through mud and bullets.

hollysteers Tue 18-Oct-22 22:16:43

Many already mentioned, but Whatever happened to Baby Jane gave me the creeps for days.
I ran out of the cinema screaming as a child watching Disney’s Alice in Wonderland.
Love horses, so anything sad about them is a no no.
Hated seeing horses falling over in cowboy films, wasn’t worried about the humans, they had choice, the horses didn’t.

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 22:09:37

I was 42 at the time. smile
Not really, I was just trying to work out how old I was.

Probably around four, too.

Kate1949 Tue 18-Oct-22 22:09:14

In think our granddaughter was 9 or 10 at the time Grannmarie.

Grannmarie Tue 18-Oct-22 22:08:12

MissAdventure

Bambi was the first film I ever saw at the cinema.

I remember screaming the place down when his mum was shot!

Me too, MisAdventure! I was very young, pre school so probably about four. My Daddy had to take me home because I roared and howled, I was so upset.

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 22:02:17

Bambi was the first film I ever saw at the cinema.

I remember screaming the place down when his mum was shot!

Hellogirl1 Tue 18-Oct-22 21:53:08

But wasn`t it creepy?

Hilltop Tue 18-Oct-22 21:48:13

I remember Night of the Hunter, Hellogirl1, Robert Mitchum very good in it.

Hellogirl1 Tue 18-Oct-22 21:33:39

The Night of the Hunter, starring Robert Mitchum, creepy.
Psycho, seen it once, could never watch it again.

Ixion and Chestnut, The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas was written as a child`s book, I didn`t realise until after I`d read it.

Grannmarie Tue 18-Oct-22 21:33:03

Kate1949

I think that was me Chestnut. It was shown to our granddaughter in primary school. She was traumatised.

Kate, in our local authority, The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas was a set text in P.6 / P.7.
( ages 10-12) When I was doing supply teaching just before lockdown it was being taught as a Unit Study in the school I was in. I was so glad I was teaching Infants, I would not have been able to teach it.

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 18-Oct-22 21:30:53

Does anyone remember The Innocents based on the Henry James novel, The Turn of the Screw? I think Deborah Kerr was in it. Terrifying.

lixy Tue 18-Oct-22 21:25:58

ixion

Kate1949

I watched The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas not realising how traumatic it would be. shock

I felt obliged to speak to the staff in our local Oxfam bookshop, where they had placed said book in the Children's Read section.
?

This book was one studied in English by Year 7's here as part on=f their WW2 theme. I was horrified (and said so).

Grannmarie Tue 18-Oct-22 21:19:53

Bambi
Dumbo
Soldier Blue
Straw Dogs
Sophie's Choice
The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas
Braveheart
Last of the Mohicans
Imitation of Life
Madam X

Shinamae Tue 18-Oct-22 20:38:22

Gorillas in the mist ?
Braveheart
Bambi

Maywalk Tue 18-Oct-22 20:24:34

The Titanic.

I had an aunt and twin cousins who lost their lives on that ship.

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 20:07:28

Oooh, the yorkshire vet
shock
Always when my dinner is going down I get to see a cows unmentionables on screen!

MissAdventure Tue 18-Oct-22 19:40:04

Hostel 2.
That frightened me.

All of my worst nightmares all rolled into one.