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Films I have never watched because I know they would upset me..

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Shinamae Mon 17-Oct-22 09:46:35

Watership down
Warhorse

MissAdventure Thu 20-Oct-22 16:20:06

Stormystar

I was taken by a friend to watch Friday 13th a horror film. A short way into watching it I’d had enough stood up and shouted out your all insane to watch this S**t and very noisily exited. I never watch gratuitous violence. Or the horror perpetrated by the Nazis. I will never understand the depths of human depravity humanity is capable of, whilst recognising I myself do not know my own limits under extreme situations. But I do enjoy a good psychological thriller.

I screamed the cinema down at the jumpy end of Friday the 13th, and made everyone else jump as well.

It was the first of "that" kind of film I'd ever seen, and I was traumatised.

GrammarGrandma Thu 20-Oct-22 16:30:03

Saving Private Ryan, any horror film.

Sipti1983 Thu 20-Oct-22 16:39:50

Goodnight Mr Tom. John Thaw was amazing and Nick Thomas? the little boy was so believable. I cried so much when I first watched it, and then afterwards I cried all the way through because I knew what was going to happen. I don't watch it now smile

MissAdventure Thu 20-Oct-22 16:41:57

I was at work when I watched goodnight Mr Tom. (In my defence, it was on christmas day, and i put it on for the people i supported to watch)
Very embarrassing being reduced to a blundering mess.

Kate1949 Thu 20-Oct-22 16:50:02

Empire of the Sun is heart wrenching.

Nantotwo Thu 20-Oct-22 16:52:11

Anything where animals die are a big no no for me, real life things such as the pet monkey abuse would harm me mentally and honestly makes me plan a macabre revenge on the perpetrators that I'd happily do time for. Love zombie and ghost films even though I live in a big old rectory next to a graveyard.

schnackie Thu 20-Oct-22 17:09:32

I won't watch anything with torture of people or animals. I can bear most horror, thriller etc because I know it's fake/special effects. I also saw Soldier Blue when it first came out. I was about 20 and it was the first time I ever cried in anger and FURY at what it depicted. I refused to watch Shawshank Redemption as I'd heard about the torture, but eventually I recorded it, hid behind a pillow whilst fast-forwarding through the 'bad' parts, and I was so glad I did! Have the same feelings about Shindler's List - may do the same in future.

nexus63 Thu 20-Oct-22 17:20:39

must be something wrong with me, i don't get upset with any movies but i do with songs. i won't watch anything with leonardo dicaprio in it, even if it has rave reviews, same with russell crowe, have not been to the movies in the past 20+ years and don't have netflix. prefer to read a book.

Snorkel Thu 20-Oct-22 18:04:25

Notting Hill
Love Actually
Any Bridget Jones
Most rom-coms
Watched The Exorcist with my 15 year old daughter and we just laughed.
Have never seen a porn movie.

Anniebach Thu 20-Oct-22 18:09:37

I want to watch Goodnight Mr.Tom again but can’t, such a mix
of pain and love

Dianehillbilly1957 Thu 20-Oct-22 18:38:32

Amy film that has an animal in it worries me, they always seem to die, I don't know why they have to have them if they're going to kill them off. Dances with wolves, won't watch that again, why kill the beautiful wolf??
Boy in the striped pyjamas, stated in my head a long, long time. Very upsetting but thought provoking.

Prescott Thu 20-Oct-22 18:49:29

Dumbo did me in as a child and later Sophie’s Choice. I can’t read about abuse to children or animals or it stays with me. Forget reading the newspaper..

Kryptonite Thu 20-Oct-22 18:49:55

The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas has often been read and studied in year 7 or 8. Similarly, children are taken to the Holocaust Centre where there are educational programmes from primary age. I would argue that many children often see totally unsuitable and graphic horrors in video games and inappropriate films, which can desensitise them to violence. This book and film is told entirely from the child's point of view, and I would recommend both very highly. It is very sensitively written and desperately sad, but does show what happens when people don't respect their fellow human beings. It is to be hoped that the next generation will not repeat the mistakes of the past ...

Bazza Thu 20-Oct-22 19:17:44

It beyond me how any depiction of war, blood and gore, anything violent or sad can be classed as entertainment. I want to feel amused, happy and uplifted not terrified, disgusted or tearful. So that rules out most films these days!

Grandymark2 Thu 20-Oct-22 20:14:44

Wished I had not watched The Boy in Striped Pyjamas - haunted me for days afterwards and avoid thinking about it even now.
Having said that, I still cry during parts of Billy Elliot not matter how many times I may have see it……..

halfpint1 Thu 20-Oct-22 20:21:10

Schnakia , memories of Soldier Blue have never left me.
I avoid most violent films. When watching films with my
children, any sex scenes was fast forwarded. People can say
what they want, but watching sex with your kids is very un-
comfortable.

M0nica Thu 20-Oct-22 20:42:39

I hate anything frightening or violent. I really dislike fictionalised versions of terrible events, although I can watch a documentary about the same event.

At a different level, I dislike history turned into film. There are so many gross and crass errors throughout all these films. (consider recent publicity about The Crown)

Silverlady333 Fri 21-Oct-22 00:15:05

I must be the exception to the rule as I love a good horror or sci fi movie. Years ago when the Exorcist came out I went to see it with a crowd from a pub I used to frequent. It was a bank holiday and it was a bright sunny day. Inside the cinema the lads from the pub kept shouting out funny comments during the film. When the bed started thumping up and down some wag shouted 'You can tell that's not a slumberland' and when Regan spewed out green bile another shouted 'Oh look mushy peas'. The whole audience was laughing. We came out of the cinema into bright sunny weather and I wasn't the least bit traumatised. A girl friend had gone to see it with her boyfriend. She was petrified, she made her dad sleep in her bed for a couple of weeks and she slept in bed with her mother with the bedroom door open and the landing light on! I saw 'The Exorcist' on TV recently and I thought it was quite tame compared to some other films I have watched. I dislike seeing any animals being depicted as being hurt though. One of the saddest was the deformed dog in 'The Fly'.

Janetashbolt Fri 21-Oct-22 03:46:29

Never watched horror movies or anyone about WW11. Love a good murder mystery and was raised on Westerns, my dad's passion

madeleine45 Fri 21-Oct-22 07:44:02

Totally uninterested in any horror film or stuff like dracula. Dont watch a great deal of films nowadays but my actual pet hate, where I do my Victor Meldrew impression every year, is the way that on Christmas Day they always choose to put war films on. For christians this is the day the Jesus is born and the message is love one another etc. So to me it is the most inappropriate choice of film. If it was just the odd time but no, every year the same.!

nipsmum Fri 21-Oct-22 10:09:54

I am not a film fan. Anything I watch is usually true life stories. I can't remember the names and instantly forget about them.

Wheniwasyourage Fri 21-Oct-22 12:28:14

Sophie's Choice - the book gave me nightmares for ages.

The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas - the book was bad enough.

Horror films - can't see the point and don't like being scared.

effalump Wed 26-Oct-22 10:40:39

A certain amount of 'bloody-ness' I can cope with but I find outright violence a no-no. My borther brought me Luck Number Slevin and within 5 minutes I had to turn off.

adrisco Wed 26-Oct-22 18:02:34

"The Birds" .. I have a bird phobia!

MissAdventure Wed 26-Oct-22 22:08:45

That's a very unsettling film.

It must be, because people often say "Oh, it looks like The Birds" if they see a row of birds.