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Love it or List it: Kirsty & Phil

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Sparklefizz Thu 26-Jan-23 09:27:02

Did anyone watch this last night?

The husband had had a bad stroke and couldn't get up steps, and their house had steps up to the front door, and also a staircase to the bedrooms, and steps down to the garden.

The husband wanted to have access to the whole house, presumably in order to go to bed, plus the garden, and therefore needed a bungalow and flat garden. He wanted to list the house, wife wanted to stay.

They viewed some lovely properties which he liked but the wife didn't.

In the end they spent £57,000 on the house making the kitchen larger and more accessible for the husband to wheel himself around on a "wheely chair", plus a ramp leading out to the garden where he could only sit and look as there were still steps to negotiate. The work took 10 months of disruption and upheaval.

To my mind this didn't fulfil the brief at all. Husband still couldn't get upstairs or properly out into the garden. The wife wanted to stay close to family who lived just round the corner, but the bungalows Phil showed them were only a 10-15 minute drive away.

What did others think?

Forsythia Thu 26-Jan-23 20:19:33

We watched it and got the strong impression that she didn’t want to move. Let’s hope it works out for them both.

nadateturbe Thu 26-Jan-23 20:50:36

I didn't know that Kate1949.

Callistemon21 Thu 26-Jan-23 21:50:27

Kate1949

I don't like Phil since his trophy hunting of a beautiful deer. Yes I know that's nothing to do with the programme.

It wasn't trophy hunting

It was part of a cull

I can understand vegetarians might be offended but people do eat venison.
Vegetarian crops are often destroyed by deer.

BigBertha1 Thu 26-Jan-23 22:30:17

I enjoyed the programme and they were both very emotionally attached to their house. They did say they would have to leave eventualky. Their first grandchild was in the way so they wanted to stay close by. Understanable. Never miss this programme.

Kate1949 Thu 26-Jan-23 22:38:47

Callistemon. Oh was it a cull? I apologise then. I saw the video. He said he'd always wanted to kill one, cuddled the deer and thanked it for granting his wish.

Kalu Thu 26-Jan-23 22:57:32

I enjoy this programme and the presenters are a good team.
At the start of the programme I felt the wife really didn’t want to move at all from a home she loved and family so close by but to make life easier for her husband, was willing to look at alternatives. She just looked so sad and her heart wasn’t in it at all. The husband also looked happy to be staying with compromises to suit both of them.

Callistemon21 Thu 26-Jan-23 23:08:45

Kate1949

*Callistemon*. Oh was it a cull? I apologise then. I saw the video. He said he'd always wanted to kill one, cuddled the deer and thanked it for granting his wish.

No, I didn't see it Kate1949 but I understand he was on an organised cull with farming friends as crops were being ruined by deer.

I think there are old customs which involve thanking an animal you have killed for food and expressing gratitude. Perhaps he was thinking of that.

Kate1949 Thu 26-Jan-23 23:10:49

OK. Callistemon Thank you for explaining it.

Callistemon21 Thu 26-Jan-23 23:13:13

I watched his programme when he was following in the footsteps of his grandfather who was a GP on Mount Tamborine in Australia.

Perhaps I'm excusing him because I like him, Kate! but yes, that is what I understood.

Kate1949 Thu 26-Jan-23 23:16:09

Yes I get it Callistemon. We like who we like don't we? smile

Callistemon21 Thu 26-Jan-23 23:17:50

🙂 That's true!
He just seems to be a nice man.