In the mid 80's the wife of our local vicar had an affair with a young woman (20+ age gap) who had been their babysitter. She left her children and husband so they could live together. Lots of prurient gossip, much speculation as to blame etc, lots of sympathy for the abandoned family and an awful lot of hate aimed at the young woman, who in many people's opinion had lured the wife away. How times change! Thank goodness there was no social media to spread rumour and hate and the local press didn't get wind of the story. I knew the vicar's wife quite well, she was a kind caring woman who had not come to terms with her sexuality and until she met someone with whom she had a very strong mutual attraction, she thought her life was OK. I moved away and don't know what happened except that her relationship didn't last but neither did she go back to her husband. I hope she's happy and has a contented life and until I am told that PS has committed some terrible crime, I wish the same for him and his family.