People are respected when they behave in a respectable manner. Personally, I feel that everyone should be paid respect, and that in this case that should apply to the family and colleagues accusing HE, as well as to HE himself.
There is nothing wrong with having doubts and questioning people’s accounts of a situation, but why not apply doubts that the mother is telling the truth to HE’s version of events, and to the papers who ran the story when they did? Conversely, if people are happy to take HE’s account at face value then why not take the claims of the parents in the same way? Something must be getting in the way of people believing one and not the other - what is that?
The son has said the events as reported are not true, but why are people believing that, when he is apparently an addict with a need to buy drugs, and when he may be ashamed of his own part in all of this? It seems odd to me that the story of parents saying that their son is being exploited is disbelieved, but the man accused of that exploitation by several young men, as well as of inappropriate behaviour by colleagues is believed. Why is the benefit of the doubt given to the accused and not to the accusers? Obviously at this stage we have no idea as to how the parents going on GB News (or is it Talk TV?) will play out - badly, quite probably - but their having a say is already condemned on here as ‘vile and dangerous’ before they have even spoken. HE’s wife had her statement read out on every news bulletin for days - should we not be allowed to even hear the other side of the story? Why not?
It is true that the police have said that so far there is no evidence of criminality, but do those saying that evidence is the only thing that matters think that no crimes are ever committed where there is no evidence? In that case, why is the clear-up rate for rape, burglary etc so low? Do you think that the police are incapable of getting things wrong, or of failing to get to the root of a matter where famous people are concerned? What about the review of the misogyny in the Met, or the findings of institutional racism? Or the findings that there was a police cover-up of their involvement in not catching Jimmy Savile? We don’t know how far they looked to find evidence either, but people seem happy to take their word that the job was done. Was there a search of HE’s computers and phone(s)? Or of deletions that may have happened in the days between the accusations and the statement about his illness?
Yes, HE is paying a high price for his indiscretions, but why is that considered a bad thing, when the family of the first young man to be mentioned, the others who came forward and the BBC colleagues also risk paying a high price for speaking out. Should they have just stayed quiet? Of course it's possible that they could all be lying to make money, but why is that more likely than that HE (one man) is lying about the situation to protect his income and reputation? Because he is famous and they are not? There is a huge risk of damage to all concerned here, and just because HE earned a huge salary doesn’t mean that he has most to lose. If one of the junior colleagues loses their job it will still be 100% of their income, just as HE will lose 100% of his if he is sacked. Whether that income is half a million a year or £30k a year doesn’t matter, and the reputation of a sex worker or drug addict is as important as that of someone paying for their services. Why is the reputation of one man more important than the well-being of several others who may have been victims of his behaviour?
Finally, I agree with those saying that workplace affairs etc are the business only of those involved, as are sexual kinks of any legal persuasion. In answer to the question in the thread title, however, the fact that HE is being paid out of licence payers’ money does make a difference. He is alleged to have paid £35k for videos (has this been repudiated by a check of bank accounts and however fees are charged on the platform that was used?) Also, accusations of workplace bullying should, IMO be taken seriously. My understanding is that HE is a journalist, not just a newsreader, hence his high salary. He has already presented a programme about how to check sources - how seriously could people now take him if he were to make one about sexual harassment or the exploitation inherent in sex work? That matters, if the BBC is to maintain its own reputation as a reliable source of news and information.