"Just a drama"!
We have been looking at drama since the days of ancient Greece, the old Norse tales and more, in order to learn about life outside our experience. Drama is life!!!
Iam You are so right about some therapy. I wonder if they will back-track and refer to what they had previously, why she turned it down or how difficult it was to get referred. Well worth putting out there.
We all have a box of tools from our child and adult interactions. Sometimes they are not enough or are inappropriate. If you were blind you would use a white stick as a tool and someone would teach you how to use it. I do wish we accepted that tools, and how to use them, are just as appropropriate for mental challenges too.