Doodledog
Whenever allegations of 'historical' abuse are made there are comments about the timeframe made by people who weren't involved and can't possibly know the reasons why the victims didn't report it at the time.
Why does it matter? The victims had their reasons, and they are nothing to do with anyone else. I'm genuinely interested to know, as it seems a strange thing to complain about. It could be that there was not enough evidence, or that the victim didn't report it for reasons of their own, but those things don't diminish the offence in any way. When circumstances change there is no reason I can see why victims shouldn't get justice, however belated it may be.
I was too scared that I would be blamed for what happened to me. It was only when the "metoo" movement started and there were programmes about the nature of grooming. For the first time since I was 13, I started to realise that it was exactly what my abuser did. I did think about making a complaint (my medical records would have backed my story) but I couldn't face it. Predators often pick the vulnerable who find it difficult to find their voice!


