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What's a movie you love, but you never recommend to anyone?

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reid88 Wed 16-Sept-26 12:39:14

You ever finish a movie and think, "I love this.. but I'm not telling anyone to watch it? Maybe it's too weird, too personal, too slow, or just hard to explain without sounding weird.

Whatever the reason, it's your gem, but you keep it quiet. What's that movie for you? I wanna watch it.

For me, it's not even about being embarrassed. It's more like... know how I connected with it. but I don't guarantee anyone else will. Maybe the pacing's off, the vibe is super niche, or it just hit me at a weird time in life.

seasider Fri 18-Sept-26 07:36:27

National Lampoons European Vacation . I don’t usually like “silly” films but this one really makes me laugh grin

Margs Fri 18-Sept-26 01:36:56

Ridley Scott's very first film "The Duellist's". A magical period piece spanning the Napoleonic wars.

And then he went on to do the Alien films.

Arto1s Fri 18-Sept-26 00:55:00

Actually, Sparky51, to be pedantic, the exact spelling of the name is Hoess.

Bluecat Thu 17-Sept-26 23:52:11

That should say “it” not “w”!

Bluecat Thu 17-Sept-26 23:51:25

The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes’ Smarter Brother starring Gene Wilder. Very, very silly but I love w.

MayBee70 Thu 17-Sept-26 23:20:24

I thought The Road was a brilliant film. I even read the book after seeing the film and loved that, too. But I bought the dvd and lent it to my daughter who said how could you have given me something so depressing to watch.

MayBee70 Thu 17-Sept-26 23:16:19

Janetashbolt

I watched Omega Man and Soylent Green in a cinema double bill BOTH really scared me, never recommended them as they are both very different end of civilisation movies.

Was that the Charlton Heston Omega Man? I was scared to go outside after dark for years after seeing that! I’m really careful about what I watch these days because once seen never forgotten; I will never watch The Blair Witch Project because of it.

grannybuy Thu 17-Sept-26 23:06:49

Cinema Paradiso. Lovely story, and the music is haunting.

Tilly8 Thu 17-Sept-26 22:49:37

Out of Africa - wonderful film. I’d be upset if I recommended it to someone and they didn’t like it! Better to keep it to myself.

MollyNew Thu 17-Sept-26 22:18:42

The Heiress with Olivia DeHavilland, Ralph Richardson and Montgomery Clift. On the face of it, it's just a Victorian melodrama but the acting is so good and the plot so well planned, I love it.

Kitty55 Thu 17-Sept-26 21:49:11

It’s The Colour Purple for me. Thought the acting was fantastic and there was a proper story. Every emotion was in there I laughed with them and cried with them. There was sadness, kindness, cruelty and love. A beautiful film.

Rosamunde Thu 17-Sept-26 21:09:31

Apologies, ladies. I obviously don’t know how to comment on a message!

Janetashbolt Thu 17-Sept-26 21:06:00

I watched Omega Man and Soylent Green in a cinema double bill BOTH really scared me, never recommended them as they are both very different end of civilisation movies.

Rosamunde Thu 17-Sept-26 21:05:08

He was actually called Rudolph Höss. The ö in German is pronounced like the u in “murder”.

Rosamunde Thu 17-Sept-26 20:58:46

Is is actually Rudolph Höss, or can be spelled Hoess. The ö in German is pronounced like the u in “murder”.

Marg75 Thu 17-Sept-26 20:31:19

I love The Bodyguard with Whitney Houston and Kevin Kostner. The song 'I will always love you' performed by Whitney is spellbinding.

Romola Thu 17-Sept-26 20:26:36

A Matter of Life and Death always had DH riveted. He'd been a young RAF pilot in the 1950s and was also an incurable romantic. It seems very dated now.
A film I love - so did DH - but younger people don't seem to get is The English Patient, another war drama (with aeroplane!) made in 1997.

Flo122 Thu 17-Sept-26 19:41:48

I absolutely love Random Harvest, have it on VHS somewhere

Jaxjacky Thu 17-Sept-26 19:13:22

The Hunger, I love the story (modern vampire), the filming and the music, MrJ was not impressed!

meadowgran Thu 17-Sept-26 18:54:52

Yes Brief Encounter is a firm favourite especially as I was once in a very similar situation.
I love Le Boucher by Claude Chabrol and I have watched it many times. I like the sheer Frenchness of it, the era and fashions in the 1960s and the slow building of fear and tension, But the two people I have shared it with have been bored and didn’t get it.
Oddly the film is set in Tremolat the small, rural village in the Dordogne, France where the Englishwoman Karen Carter was murdered in 2025 and was also stabbed like the film. A French woman has been charged with her murder.

TheHappyGardener Thu 17-Sept-26 18:53:52

Well, I’m definitely going to have to watch Zone of Interest - it sounds fascinating and chilling all at once (and it’s one I’ve not heard of before). Mine (in comparison) is totally flippant but it never fails to make me laugh out loud and weep in equal measure - When Harry Met Sally - it explores a subject close to my heart, which is the age-old question of whether men and women can be best friends without being attracted to each other. But my own kids (in their forties) and certainly anyone younger I’m sure think it’s very dated now which is why I wouldn’t recommend it. I’ll never stop loving it though … 😌

nanaK54 Thu 17-Sept-26 17:09:17

Ray82

Brief Encounter but I think some people would find it over romantic.I found it had good moral story and the way some men just said yes dear to their wife without listening said it all!

Oh I love 'Brief Encounter' and also 'Random Harvest' which so few people seem to know

Close Encounters of the Third Kind is the one that I usually keep quiet about - I love it and have seen it countless times

sandelf Thu 17-Sept-26 17:03:19

The French 'La Cage aux Folles' - you can have subtitles. Not the same as the USA one at all.

Sarnia Thu 17-Sept-26 16:57:00

Sparky51

Its actually Rudolph Hess..not Hoss...just to be correct.

I am afraid it is you who are not correct.

Rudolph Hoss and Rudolph Hess are 2 different people.

Hoss was the first and longest serving Kommandant of Auschwitz.

Hess was Hitler's Deputy and was nowhere near Auschwitz.

AGAA4 Thu 17-Sept-26 16:54:53

CarrotTop

Hitchcock's "Strangers on a Train". So cleverly put together, but it's now considered old-fashioned and - worse - it requires a bit of thinking about to "get" it. People prefer easier entertainment these days. I wouldn't recommend any film/play/book/music to anyone - people ought to make their own choices and decisions, not just do what other people recommend.

One of my favourites. The plot is clever but chilling.