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Fay Weldon webchat - Weds 27 Nov, 4-5pm

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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 13-Nov-13 17:28:25

We're very excited indeed that Fay Weldon - one of Britain's best-loved authors - will be joining us at GNHQ for a live webchat.

Fay’s credits as writer include classic novels like The Life and Loves of a She Devil and Puffball, and the pilot episode of the original TV series Upstairs Downstairs. In 2001 she was awarded a CBE for services to literature. She has seven sons and stepsons and one stepdaughter, and lives on a hill in Dorset.

Her latest novel, The New Countess, another joyous tale of manners and morals, commoners and countesses, (see below for special offer) has just been published and is the final instalment in the Love and Inheritance trilogy.

Add your questions for Fay here.

Also...we have 50 copies of Habits of the House, the first novel in Fay Weldon's Love & Inheritance trilogy to give-away. The first 50 gransnetters to email [email protected] with their full name and postal address will be sent a copy. Closing date 30th November.

Plus we have an exclusive Gransnet half price offer on the latest Fay Weldon novel. To order The New Countess for £7.50* simply quote code 9PX when placing your order by phone, email or post to:

E-mail: [email protected]
Call: 01256 302699
Write to: Customer Services, Macmillan Distribution, Brunel Road, Houndmills, RG21 6XS

*P&P not included. Closing date 31st December 2013.

notgrandma Wed 27-Nov-13 17:26:52

Hi Loved your books which seemed really on my wave length when i read them quite a few years ago , I am now promising myself to reread and catch up with your new one . Hope you are keeping well and enjoying life.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 17:01:58

I hope you all find the digging rewarding! I really loved writing the trilogy and it's really nice as a reward to be able to talk to Gransnet.

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 27-Nov-13 17:00:36

Thanks so so much to Fay - it's been fabulous having her here (especially modelling our tea towel grin and looking forward to digging into the new book

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:59:38

pasttheyardarm

Hi Fay! Are you a fan of Downton Abbey? Or do you feel like it ripped off Upstairs Downstairs a bit? And why do you think people so so fascinated with class, even today?

I think even today people are fascinated by class. 100 years ago everybody had both rights and obligations. If you were the lady of the household in the Dilburn family, Mrs Beeton in her household management would tell her that she had to work hard, she had to set an example, not get drunk, go to bed early, and in return she expected to be waited on. The head parlour maid would expect to have her cup of tea brought to her by the under-parlour maid. You knew where you were. It was a settled society. You look back and think it's terrible, but what we have now, which still does not give us a proper class mobility, is worse now than it was a generation ago. In Henry VIII's time the butcher's boy could rise to be Head of Affairs, such a thing nowadays just doesn't happen. How do other people see it?

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:54:08

grapefruit

Has GNHQ shown you the new tea towel - which do you think is you? grin

I'm looking at the tea towel even as I speak. I think I'm all of them, except thin or sporty! I'm not particularly a jet-setting gran either - I like home. It's extraordinary how many skills everybody has. Icing cakes was always something I'd like to do, but that too has become a professional thing.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:50:21

iceandaslice

Afternoon Fay, thank you for joining us! I just wanted to say thank you for showing that women of a certain age can still achieve brilliant things and carry on working. Do you ever experience ageism in your industry?

When you get to a certain age there are some jobs which get difficult to do. I think if you're a nurse you should be able to retire when you're 60 (if not before!). Jobs like writing you can, thank goodness, keep on doing because mostly it's sedentary and the only bit of you that has to work properly is your brian. Long may we, of the older generation, continue while being grateful that we live in the computer age.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:47:42

flopsybunny

Another feminism question. I read somewhere about your views on a patriarchal society. Do you think this has changed much over the last generation? I like to think that it will be different for our granddaughters than it was for our daughters but I fear this may be wishful thinking

I think society has changed enormously over the last two generations - that's 50 years. Women have choice now, whether to marry, not to marry, whether to have babies, not to have babies and so on. The only choice they don't have, which they used to have, is not to go out to work. I think women and men are much happier in their personal lives than they used to be, but we all work much harder. We have to.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:45:40

grapefruit

I also wanted to ask, if things hadn't worked out for you as a writer, what do you think you would be doing now? Or what would like to be doing?

I always wanted to be a mill owner in the north of England, having read a lot of sagas when I was a child. failing that later on I thought I wanted to run ICI, nowadays I'd be more interested in running Google. I am a power freak!

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:44:26

whenim64

Hi Fay. Do you have any more of your novels due to be filmed or televised? She Devil was my favourite series of your novel. Did you ever think of writing a sequel? I would be fascinated to learn how the rest of Ruth's life panned out, as she planned to make her husband as miserable as he had made her grin Such a rich landscape to plough, eh?

A company is currently trying to set up the Love and Inheritance trilogy for filming, but these things take years and years. I've been trying to work out a sequel to She Devil for a long time, but society has changed so much since it was written, the same rules simply do not apply.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:42:31

petitpois

Do you find writing a lonely experience? It seems so odd to me that writers write for so long on their own and then all of a sudden are caught up in a publicity frenzy. Must be quite disorientating?

I don't find it a lonely experience. One has all these characters to keep one company and the phone keeps ringing, and the postman keeps coming to the door, or you have to go and see the dentist or the doctor. So, chance of being lonely would be a fine thing! And the publicity frenzy has evened out a lot these days, but it's true, once upon a time it was very exciting and quite terrifying. A sudden blaze of light and noise when you're accustomed to a piece of paper and a pen or, these days, a screen and a mouse.

grapefruit Wed 27-Nov-13 16:39:24

I also wanted to ask, if things hadn't worked out for you as a writer, what do you think you would be doing now? Or what would like to be doing?

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:38:28

icequeen

Hello Fay, welcome to Gransnet webchats! How old are your grandchildren? Do they know that you are famous? Do any of them write themselves?

I have no idea if my grandchildren know I'm famous, we tend to talk about ice lollies and whether or not it's time to go to bed. My children on the other hand, do seem to have noticed, but I enjoined all my children a long time ago, that they were never to read my books or talk to me about them. On the other hand, my eldest son, who is a musician, did write an operetta based on Puffball and another son wrote a film, also based on Puffball, so I don't think they've taken much notice of what I said!

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:35:17

getmehrt

You are - or were? - a professor of creative writing at Brunel university. Do you think the adage that "everyone has a book in them" is true? Or do you either have the talent or not (a talent which can then be honed)

I think everyone has a book in them, but not everyone is able to bring it out. Some people have an aptitude for words and write very good non-fiction, fewer people have an aptitude for making things up - they find invention difficult. If you can combine the two (an aptitude for words and the power to invent) you have the makings of a novelist. You can teach people how to handle words effectively, but you can't teach people what to say. That has to come form them.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:32:38

granIT

I believe you come from a literary family. So is writing in your blood? Or was it something you simply happened into?

Yes, I come from a literary family. My mother was a novelist, my grandfather was a novelist, my uncle was a novelist - and they all died rather poor. But I think an aptitude for words can be hereditary, just like an aptitude for music can be, or art, or any particular talent you happen to be born with.

grapefruit Wed 27-Nov-13 16:31:43

Has GNHQ shown you the new tea towel - which do you think is you? grin

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:31:05

threesugars

Hi Fay, I'm interested to know what your thoughts are on ebooks and how they're affecting publishing? And general book readers? Do you have a Kindle or other e-device?

Yes, I have a Kindle. I've even got a new Paperwhite Kindle - and if only I could get it to link up with my WiFi, I would be able to use it! I think some books work better as e-books than others. I don't think e-books pay enough attention to their typography, or their spacing, or the way books are presented-which is very important. But I think they're great, and should work in parallel with the printed book, and I'm sure will in the future.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:28:05

LyndaW

Hi Fay, so nice of you to come on GN and answer our questions. I read on your website that no one's interested in what happens to women after 35. Why, in your opinion is this just women, and not men? I feel I only started to get interesting around 40. How do we convince the world not to ignore us 'oldies'?

I'm talking about fiction - of course we all get more interesting as we get older. We know more, we've experience more - we know what is going to happen next. It's just that, if we're at a party, unless we're very special, men's eyes at parties tend to look past us. And, honestly, that doesn't matter very much, but a wise writer, hoping to get published, is probably wiser not to write about the domestic problems of a 50-year-old woman. Which is tough news, but it's true.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:25:42

notquitebabyboomer

Hi Fay,
You've written so many novels - how do you keep coming up with ideas, and do you think you'll continue indefinitely? Does it leave you much time to read other people's fiction, and if so, who do you read?

I think Ill probably go on writing indefinitely-I don't see any reason to stop. The world goes on with as much energy and absurdity as ever. I teach creative writing now, I am a professor at Bath Spa University, so I get to read a lot of aspiring young novelists. I'm really a kind of reading/writing machine, but I do get round to other people's books. Kate Atkinson is a favourite.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:23:39

plainbellysneetch

Hello Fay

Down Among the Women had a huge influence on me and my generation - thank you. I'd like to ask what it was like to be a bit 'ahead of your time'? Did you come under a lot of personal scrutiny from the media, which I imagine was very anti 'Women's Lib' at the time?

Being "ahead of my time" was indeed rather difficult. As an early feminist, men would walk out of rooms when I came into them. It was as if the sun would go out if a woman suggested it was not our destined place to iron men's shirts. That didn't last very long however. Men, in the end, became almost more feminist than the women.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:21:28

Roxannee

Hello Fay. Love your books. Out of all of your novels, which one is your favourite?

I always tend to like the second before last. The second before last (at the moment) is Long Live the King, but Puffball is a great favourite of mine and of many women, and the Cloning of Joanna May thinking back, was a pretty clever piece of work.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:20:00

CuriousCat

I also have a feminism related question...

There was a lot of press back in 1998 when you said... "Defining [rape] as some peculiarly awful crime may even be counter-productive. I'd like to see it defused for women and deglamorised for men by returning it to the category of aggravated assault."

Do you still stand by this?

Statistically, only 5.3% of rapes reported to the police end in a conviction for rape. And 89% of rapes are never reported to the police at all (according to Mumsnet's Rape Myths page). Do you think more could be done to encourage rape victims to report?

One has to be very careful indeed when answering questions like this, because what you say can be studied carefully and a lot of argument can ensue, and what you said once is not necessarily what you think now. But by and large, I think what I said then remains valid in as much as rape is used in, say, Syria, to bring women into disgrace so they can't get married and in India, where rape is a way of bringing women into disgrace. Rape is about power, not sex. If it is divorced from sexuality and turned into a more normal aggravated assault, you take one element out of it that is extremely dangerous and dreadful for women.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:16:44

FayWeldon

cinnamonstix

Hi Fay! Feminism is a big theme across your books. What do you think about 'fourth wave feminism'? Do you think there's a place for it - or is it a bit middle class, and we should be focusing our attention on genuine battles for equality (i.e. racism, homophobia)?

I think feminism has been a genuine battle, but yes, I think in Europe it has been, not quite won, but almost a victory. I think our energy should go to the women of other cultures who are now battling very bravely and in the face of physical danger, to promote the equality of men and women in other lands.

However, the price of equality is eternal vigilance wherever you live.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:16:10

cinnamonstix

Hi Fay! Feminism is a big theme across your books. What do you think about 'fourth wave feminism'? Do you think there's a place for it - or is it a bit middle class, and we should be focusing our attention on genuine battles for equality (i.e. racism, homophobia)?

I think feminism has been a genuine battle, but yes, I think in Europe it has been, not quite won, but almost a victory. I think our energy should go to the women of other cultures who are now battling very bravely and in the face of physical danger, to promote the equality of men and women in other lands.

FayWeldon Wed 27-Nov-13 16:14:22

Buddie

I've just been re-reading your collection of short stories, Wicked Women, and I wondered if you feel there is still a place (and indeed a market) for short stories outside of the womens weekly and monthly titles?

Yes, I think there is a great new market now we have e-books. Short stories are almost easier to read electronically than long novels. I think the attention you can pay a screen and concentrate suits the short story form very well. Anything that's short is good on the screen, so I shall stop this answer now...

iceandaslice Wed 27-Nov-13 16:13:50

Afternoon Fay, thank you for joining us! I just wanted to say thank you for showing that women of a certain age can still achieve brilliant things and carry on working. Do you ever experience ageism in your industry?