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mumofmadboys Tue 15-Nov-16 14:27:59

What is new car sex Im68now please? Does it mean having sex in a car and if so isn't that a bit uncomfortable?

Teetime Tue 15-Nov-16 14:17:37

I agree with Jayh never been a taboo subject in this house and no problems here after 39 years although we have had to stop dangling from the chandeliers so I wont be buying the book.

Jumpback Tue 15-Nov-16 13:39:15

'Your as old as you feel,and if you can still feel your not so old'! smile

Jayh Tue 15-Nov-16 13:36:34

I hadn't noticed that it was a taboo subject. We are children of the sixties after all.

grannylyn65 Tue 15-Nov-16 13:01:59

Chance be a fine thing!

annsixty Tue 15-Nov-16 11:02:13

It was great while it lasted but Alzheimer's puts an end to all that.

Jalima Tue 15-Nov-16 10:54:29

Do Tantric workshops involve getting down on the floor?

Fine, all for it, but it's the getting up again that is the problem.

whitewave Tue 15-Nov-16 10:20:15

20 yearsgrin

tanith Tue 15-Nov-16 10:17:46

hmm

Im68Now Tue 15-Nov-16 10:16:11

I've just seen the price of your book.

For the last 20 years we have new car sex, yes you've guessed right, great fun.

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 15-Nov-16 09:37:00

The sexuality of people over a certain age seems to be something of a taboo subject - but not for esteemed French psychologist Marie de Hennezel.

In her new book, Sex After Sixty: a French guide to loving intimacy, she looks at how emotional intimacy plays a huge role in maintaining a sex life as you age and how knowing how to take pleasure as it comes, rather than focussing on what could be, can be the key to a more erotic and satisfying sexuality.

She will be answering your questions on the above and more - simply leave them on this thread before Tuesday 29 November. Note that if you'd prefer to change your name for this, that is absolutely fine - just drop us a line at [email protected] and we can sort that out.

Marie de Hennezel is the author of two ministerial reports about caring for those with terminal illnesses, and has written ten books about growing older, including the Sunday Times top-5 bestseller The Warmth of the Heart Prevents Your Body from Rusting. Her books have been translated into 22 languages.

From attending Tantric workshops to interviewing dozens of sexually active older people, de Hennezel looks at the role that sex plays in our health and sets out on a quest to discover how you can continue to enjoy a satisfying sex life into old age. She brings her insight as a psychotherapist - along with her Gallic joie de vivre and frankness - to bear on a subject that has been brushed under the carpet for too long. Having seen the sexual revolution first-hand in France in the 1960s and 70s, today de Hennezel - born in 1946 - argues that it's time for a new sexual revolution, one which acknowledges that sex is important at any stage of adulthood, and which embraces many different ways of making love. In a society saturated by online porn and 'hook-up culture', reflecting on intimacy and learning from those who know how to make it last is more important than ever, making her book essential reading for lovers of any age.