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This is about what happens in jobcentres these days - or rather outside them.
Is this what you encounter, biker?
Here comes the sun…..are you prepared?
As some of you know I am on Jobseekers looking for a job.
Had my "review" today! no one told me it was my review until I arrived(apparently I could have claimed my bus fare) hmm!
Anyway as I was being "interviewed" interrogated about my work search, I just happened to say...well let's face it! I'm 61 this year where am I going to find a job especially with my poor CV ?
Girl of around 26ish then said..we expect you to have found work within the first 13 weeks of signing on Jobseekers,(Iv been on it since 1st of July last year) but you have been with us longer!
she said and these were her actual words..." we are targeting your age group !" yes she used the word "targeting"!
As I have certificates in Tongue holding I sat there and said nothing (didn't want to jeopardise my £73 a week spends) she said we aim to get you back to work within I think she said 6 months.
I then asked what if I wasn't. She says "we will put you on a work plan)
I'm off to google "workplan" in 2 mins. and reminded me that I should be searching and applying for at least 2/3 per day (21 per week)!and be prepared to travel 90 mins (didn't dare ask if that's each way)
she asked if I was "fit" I just said well yes I can walk.
So be prepared any ladies out there if your over 55 and either having to look for work or been/being made redundant and having to visit the Jobcenter. "forewarned" maybe I should have started a blog ehhh!
thepoorsideoflife.wordpress.com/
This is about what happens in jobcentres these days - or rather outside them.
Is this what you encounter, biker?
I think the same as you, biker; karma. They do not need to be in the same situation, just get their just deserts.
Sorry to hear that, biker. Hope she's okay now. That does not follow; just because they've asked you to pick her up does not mean she should be discharged.
Just thought you should see this, from a debate in the House of Commons yesterday.
"In my experience, there have been other cases of people facing great hardship through the incompetence of the programme so far. Basic work with different agencies has not taken place. For example, one of my constituents was previously in receipt of jobseeker’s allowance and was subsequently moved on to universal credit. Upon going to the dentist he required treatment, which was free under the NHS. When he was filling in the usual form, he was advised to tick the box marked “income-based jobseeker’s allowance”, as there was no box for universal credit. Subsequently, he was billed and pursued by the NHS Business Services Authority and threatened with county court action for a false declaration. If that is the level of co-operation between different agencies at this stage, what hope is there for the future?"
A discussion on Universal Credit in the North West in Westminster Hall.
A reason to be honest.
durhamjen nothing surprises me, the cruelty of these so called Gov Bodies is just speachless, I only hope that one just one day they themselves will be in the same situation (although we know they wont as they have themselves all covered nicely)!
Yesterday my mum collapsed and ambulance was called etc , so knew that she would need looking after, I was due to start a cleaning course(from the jobcenter) I rang and explained to my support worker, who said she would ring me back which she did..but by this time my mum had another episode and had to go in hospital via ambulance etc where she still is at the mo. On telling my support worker this..her reply was , we have cancelled your course andput to down as "a home emergency" or something like that and re scheduled my course .But! I was asked thats if I could bring any proof in to show that my mum had been taken in hospital and thats why I couldn't go on the course!!!!!!!!!! I have still got to sign on tomorrow. jst had a call to pick my mum up now
bye all...dont let the bu**ars get you down anyone!!!
This is even worse job centre targeting of older women.
www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/woman-claims-dwp-sacked-after-7171372#ICID=sharebar_facebook
I'm just pleased I am older than you, biker, and got my pension at sixty.
It nearly doubled, as well, when my husband died. He had only had his pension for six months, so they saved on him.
Rather have him back, though.
Oh what a mess things are in! it makes me feel I'm quite well off (not financial) but physically so to speak..These people have lots of hoops to jump through.I suppose in years gone by some have sort of taken advantage of the system and now all are paying the price.
www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/murderer-iain-duncan-smith-confronted-7159079
You might enjoy this, biker, IDS visiting a job centre.
loop when I was due to come off bereavement allowance and move onto JSeekers, I wasn't sure if I had to go on Universal Credit.I asked and asked but no one seem to know, took quite few phone calls and then when I went down to the JC and explained to a chap that when I was filling the claim in for UC, it wouldn't let me go any further as one of the first questions is "do you own your own home" which I do....I told him it wouldnt let me continue filling the form in....his words were!! "just put "no" to where it asks if you own your own home"!!!!! stupid *****!!!!! can you imagine the consequences of me telling lies!
In the end It was Jseekers I had to go on not UC.
thanks loopy
Unfortunately I have no choice but to go to the JC as I have no other income.
Hope your contract is extended in your charity shop! I love working in the one I am in, didn't realise there was so much work to do in a charity shop, just thought it was a case of standing there sorting clothes lol. I have been in extra days over Christmas and New year as I enjoy it so much
thanks for the cake n flowers...for some reason they are black n white not colour ! 
I went through goodness knows how many hoops at the Job Centre to get JS Allowance only to be told I didn't qualify for it ?
No explanation why not.
I vowed never to go back, my local JC is the pits, you're made to feel utterly worthless and extremely uncomfortable (I'm not alone in saying this), terrible experience when you're already pretty low.
Luckily I found a one year post with a local charity (and am keeping my fingers crossed that it's extended beyond March 31st!)
Good luck bikergran ? ? and best wishes x
FarNorth not quite sure.(but no I wouldn't think it was extra help).I was a bit taken aback when she just came out with it. I had just said to her....I'm 61 this year, I doubt if there is much out there for me....she replied "we have lots of women in here age 55 and over, and we are targetting ( I cant quite think if she said "targetting that age group or targetting your age group,either way we are targets. Lets see what this Friday brings! I am on a Level 2 Advanced cleaning course this Thursday and Friday for three weeks, have they let me off signing on ?? nope!! I have to still go down when I finish my course at 3-30 Friday and trot down to the. jobcenter.
Who ever voted this nasty cruel government in need their heads examining !
What do they mean by "targeting older women"? Giving them extra help, do you suppose?
If the assessors are failing so spectacularly ( dj's link) it's time they were sanctioned!
lol durhamjen Il'e have you know I am quite photogenic (not)!! lol 
ok off to do mix a new bathc of my chalk paint for my shabby chic furniture
that isn't going to plan at the mo but I'm sure the end result will be fine 
The thing about being a photographer is that you do not have to take photos of yourself, biker.
petition.parliament.uk/petitions/117916
16,000+ signatures now in two days.
Those of you who feel sorry for people who are sick being forced to go back to work need to sign this.
Funny you should mention being on the sick for 6 years * Bikergran* !!
My DD's MIL gave up work in 1979 when her first child was born and has never gone back!! Her husband gave up work in 1976 because ...and I quote ' He didn't like it' !! He then became her carer claiming she needed 24/7 care.
She has a mild disability that affects her walking in that she has a limp but as I have personally seen the lady in question dance the night away its not that disabling !!
Her DH passed away about 6 years ago and she remains totally supported on benefits , manages 5 nights at the pub a week - that's her social life she says and at least one holiday a year overseas !!
Thats where the system falls down. This lady could easily work in a call centre or behind a till . She manages the 1/2 mile walk each way to the pub alright 
Yes I remember phoenix's post and yes she has done brill..really pleased for her and anyone that has managed to secure work.thanks Elegran
Did you read phoenix's posts when she was going through a similar time looking for work, biker? The splendid job she has now was gained by her own efforts. If you PMed her she might be able to give you some tips on "survival".
Oh thanks all for your kind words, I am hoping if any one else is in similar situ that I may be able to at least encourage them.
I was advised prior to just going on Jobseekers (whilst still on Bereavement allowance) that I should maybe "visit the doctor"!! prior to being signed onto JS!!(an older more sympathetic one)
Believe me I have thought about it many times on my darkest days, but!! you are allowed I think 13 week certificate, at the end of this you then have to go back to the doc etc etc ..and sort of go through the hoops again, and whilst I'm sure my Doctor would have sympathy with me, it would only last so long and at the end of the day I wouldn't be able to stay on sickness for the next 6/7 yrs. I mean look at the people who they are "forcing" back into work!
so there would be no chance of me being able to stay in that situation. At some time I would have had to face the music so I just think, may as well get on with it, there are so many worse than myself.I consider myself very lucky, I am fit enough to walk about, I have my family near by, I have met friends at college and I love being in the charity shop/chatting and all.
I do have days when I talk to my DH photo and say "this is your fault" 
but he is free from pain and that's what makes me soldier on, he was in pain for years and never moaned or complained, so when I am out walking it doesn't bother me if I get soaked or tired or whatever, I just think of what he had to go through and my pain emotional or physical is nothing compared to what his was.
I want to be uplifted,and to make others feel like there is (hopefully) a light at the end of that tunnel.
Ha!! so much for me being a budding photographer!! I haven't even got one photo on my profile tut tut.!! 
All of this is quite creepy really - it is as if the "advisors" feel they have been given the right to control every aspect of your life, even out of work hours. It is wholly unacceptable and makes me cringe.
If you had gone into a decline, lost your initiative and sat around weeping, you would probably be exempt from trying to find work and provided with benefits. The fact that you have grabbed life by the balls, even though you are grieving, and got on and found useful and interesting things to do seems to count against you. Iy makes my blood boil on your behalf.
As someone has said, don't let the buggers grind you down.
Wouldn't it be great if the government thought their policies through in the real world, rather than dealing in sound bites and simplistic theories? Sigh.
I have huge sympathy for you after my own experiences Bikergran
I also think you're right , a younger advisor just doesn't get it. How could they , I know when I was in my 20's I thought I knew everything ( of course now I'm in my 50's I do
)
Its this impossible one size fits all mentality that ground me down. I never wanted to give up work, but circumstances forced that on me. I also knew I was discriminated against by potential employers.I did a straw poll and at one interview turned up with my walking stick- no second interview . Next one I folded my stick and put it in my bag, amazingly = second interview. A tiny sample of course I might be tarring all with the same brush !
I too did a photography course in my first year of 'retirement' and loved it and now am working on improving my photoshop skills etc.So I wish you luck with that , even if it doesnt lead to a job its a lovely skill to have.
I dont have any advice other than hang onto that positive attitude , it will stand you in good stead and I love the idea of a blog 
Bikergran I am full of admiration for you. To lose a loving husband and then be faced with all this must be soul destroying and I would be feeling very bitter. Good luck with the photography.
hiLuckygirl thanks for that info and yes something to think about, photography is an exciting hobby but I realise a very hard niche to get into or make money from.The reason I started the Photography course was my elder DD moved house and after she was sorted she bought me this all singing /dancing SLR camera, bag, filters extra lenses as a thankyou for helping her over the years
it sat in its box for a couple of yrs (it came out now n then for me to play with but then back into the box) I just had't the insentive or the enthusiasm at the time with DH being poorly, I couldn't concentrate.But now of course I have to get on, I still have trouble concentrating but I am getting there with it.Looking forward to starting the Level 2 this coming Wednesday and I believe we have visits planned to the Lowry arts center and a few other places.soooo watch out David Bailey!! (is he still around I haven't heard about him recently) 
When I was at the JC on Friday, the support worker asked about all my courses(although they were there all on her screen)! when she came to the photography one she asked "did we put you on that"!!! I said no I put myself on it....
I could see what was going through her head """how dare this lady take it upon herself to go and do a course that she enjoys""" we can't have that tut tut!! she asked what time the course was (6pm-9pm) hmmmm! she said so it doesn't interfere with you looking for work??? "no" I said... grrrrrrrrrrrrr. The course itself I enjoy, but getting there is a diff matter, I walk to college (about a 50 min walk) in all weathers etc, I then will come out of college and have to walk into town (about a 10 mins dark and lonely walk) then I have to hang around the deserted bus station for the bus, if I miss the 9-10 one the next one is half hour wait.When I get off the bus I have a bit of a lonely walk of about 8 mins (5 if I run) lol.so although it may sound like its fun to the jobcentre , it is not all cut n dried.I do ask myself "what are you doing girl wandering about at this time of night"??
and of course my DDs worry.
(wish I had started a blog now lol)
I would love to hear from others in a similar situation.
I'm going to start a diary each time I go to the jobcenter.Dont get me wrong my last adviser was lovely and had sympathy for our age group (she was about late 40s) the new one is about ermmm 25/7 ish.
morethan2 yes I do feel bitter at times, even more so now I have to trudge down to town every Friday at all diff times(in the summer I would normally drive my mum n dad up to their caravan in Morecambe and stay with them every other weekend, make them meals and drive them about, but that will now have to stop now as I'm on weekly signings) but you just sort of slip into a routine, its like your life is being controlled, and you have no control over it, but I am hoping that something will crop up or that I have this "wonderfull" idea of my own business.Trying to think of it all as well as still grieving is a bit of a daunting task.But I am not looking for sympathy I am just trying to highlight what being unemployed and having to visit the jobcentre is like at our age.
How on earth do these people who are poorly and ill and who are forced off sickness and back into jobsearching, I really cant bare to think about.
Thank you Mr Government.
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