liskazl - you like your job, your colleagues, you are fit and you look good - you are actually very lucky that it's just the workload you are finding too much. And do you really suffer from stress with all these good things in your life, or is it just a matter of having too much to do? Why don't you keep a diary of when you feel 'stressed' and what has caused that feeling. If you do genuinely have too much to do in your job then approach your head and provide the concrete information of where you are working over and above what you think your teaching contract requires. And again if you really are 'stressed' then you should go to your GP and have your blood pressure monitored because this is the evidence of stress. If your blood pressure is high then you will be prescribed medication and that will slow you down, you won't be able to do all the overloading things you find you have on your plate, and you could take early retirement due to ill health. Your pension will not suffer in anyway other than what you get will be a reflection of your last few years' earnings which may be less than what you would get if you stayed for another six years. Sorry to be so black and white about this, but you are either suffering from stress or not, and if you are then you can be declared medically unfit to continue without jeopardising your pension. It rather sounds, however, as though you are having some transference of your husband's position, and just encountering the feeling that comes to us all, that we are ageing and don't like it.