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I thought the Manageress of the charity shop was very rude to one of her staff!

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nexus63 Mon 18-Oct-21 20:00:16

i was barred from a local charity shop for speaking to the manager about how she was treating her staff, an elderly lady volunteer was trying to get a large rail of clothes out from the back to the front of the shop, i stepped forward to help her and saw the manageress in the back with her cuppa and reading a magazine, i smiled and sort of laughed and said i think this lady needs a hand, she said she does not get paid to move rails of clothes, i helped the lady then went back to the staff door and said maybe i should call head office and find out what you get paid for.....she than told me i was barred from the shop i did email head office the got a call from them to say the manager had been moved to another place to work for the charity. they have a new manager and some of the volunteers have thanked me as it was getting difficult for them to continue to volunteer in the shop, the new lady is very hands on and makes sure all the staff stop for a cuppa.

Redhead56 Mon 18-Oct-21 19:52:16

I would have told the manageress I was going to purchase something today. I have decided not to based on her tone to the other staff member and then I would have walked out.

Kali2 Mon 18-Oct-21 19:50:00

Did you ask to speak to the Manager in private and tell her what you thought? Not much point saying it here on GN.

bikergran Mon 18-Oct-21 19:47:41

Which I did similar tasks when working in the shop, but it was the way the woman spoke to the young girl, I will pop in again and miander around and see what it's like.

bikergran Mon 18-Oct-21 19:45:34

Yes agree, the other young girl was on her hands and knees cleaning the floor of the window.

valdali Mon 18-Oct-21 19:41:09

There's absolutely no reason why she couldn't have served you herself if she was so concerned about the queue. Managers who won't condescend to do their team's jobs occasionally when need arises are seldom good managers.

bikergran Mon 18-Oct-21 19:36:49

Popped in local charity shop in town today SENSE the manageress (I presume that's what she is) was giving out orders such a body do this ,such a body do that. Which yes I know someone has to be in charge.

I purchased a couple of items and went to the desk, there wasn't anyone about but I wasn't bothered about waiting, there was myself then another customer came to the desk.It wasn't even 30 seconds.

The manageress if that's who she is, shouted " Mary !! (not her real name )there's customers waiting to be served!! in quite a brusk and nasty tone right across the shop.

Myself and the other customer both looked at each other! the other customer said quite loudly "she wouldn't talk to me like that"!
I said " no " me neither , the customer made another remark.

I said to the young girl whos served me "does she always talk to you like that"! she just smiled politely and said nothing.

I cant stop thinking about it, I have worked in a charity shop when I was on jobseekers, but I left one charity shop because I didn't like their attitude .

Even as Volunteers there is no need to be spoken to in that manner, if Volunteers walked out the charities would be right up the Kyber.