So - currently working 18 months at an organisation in Surrey. Started as a temp but got internal job. Despite information from others saying manager is impressed with me he never initiates conversation (usually get a hello and goodbye). He brought his wife into work one weekend for the whole day upstairs. She looked friendly and smiley and didn' look stressed and she didn't look estranged from him. Didn't introduce her - she came behind the counter. I said 'are you a new temp?' she said ' i am his wife'. Then I discover that my female colleague from a different team is having a relationship with him from some email clues (with the same terminology minutes apart from each other) and a lot of mirroring, finishing the same times and the fact that she seems to be his 'PA' despite working under different teams. I like her, and it's not my business other to pick up the pay check but my ego is a bit hurt because they were both on the panel and I now feel that he wasn't really interested in me as a person - he was more interested in pleasing his mistress. I wonder if she knows his wife visited before christmas. I would be grateful for advice as I hate working in an open planned office observing their ill concealed relationship - and his complete indifference to me as someone who's recently joined their team (i.e I've had no official 'one to one' with him or induction). Thanks.
An interfacing question for all you expert sewers out there!