A friend who was widowed a year past rang yesterday to ask if we were going to conference in October and when I said Yes she asked if she could tag along i.e. get a lift there and back, stay at same hotel etc. Of course I said OK and DH is fine with the arrangement but last night and today I am so angry and disappointed about it. We have had our one week holiday with the DDs, their partners and 3 DGC which was great, but I was so looking forward to our only 3 day break with just the two of us to consider, when we can please ourselves, have a romantic meal and hang the cost, hang out with old friends and dip in and out of the conference when there is something we are interested in.
The answer is not as easy as planning another break for ourselves as money is short and time off from childminding hard to arrange. I do admire our friend who is successfully creating a new life for herself, but she has a couple of quirks that make her a bit of a pain at times. I think I am being unreasonable but how do I calm down?