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The humble cuckoo,”In April come he will,In may he sings all day”.

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Panache Thu 19-Apr-18 14:36:43

Oh dear!!! humble apologies for obviously stepping on toes and upsetting certain people by seemingly posting under the wrong heading...........not intentionally I add, and not because I don`t read the other forums........ you will see my various replies in many areas.
I take an avid interest and am more than happy to add new thoughts for us to ponder at will.
Quite frankly at least as a newcomer or not,I am taking an active interest and bringing in lots of new headings, but that seems to go unheeded.
I shall try not to upset Phoenix ........or others further.
Now I feel the chastisement of a little schoolgirl,though thank you Grannyactivist in coming directly to me with the issue, which I can then at least respond too.I appreciate that.

phoenix Thu 19-Apr-18 14:31:42

blush

Jalima1108 Thu 19-Apr-18 14:16:46

Personally I think that cuckoos are very unreasonable as they lay their own eggs in another bird's nest, so perhaps AIBU could be the right heading.

Actually, I haven't heard a cuckoo for years, we used to have one near here that returned every April sad.

The cuckoo comes in April
She sings her song in May
In the middle of June she whistles a tune
And July she flies away.

hildajenniJ Thu 19-Apr-18 14:15:21

I haven't heard a cuckoo for years and years. I used to listen for the ones in the woods near my childhood home. At school we learnt a song, it went,

Cuckoo, cuckoo, what do you do.
In April I open my bill,
In May I sing night and day,
In June I change my tune,
In July far far I fly,
In August away I must.
youtu.be/u02zNsFHgdQ

SueDonim Thu 19-Apr-18 14:10:45

There's been one round here in recent years but I've not heard it yet this year.

I'm not sure cuckoos are humble - they've a blooming cheek invading someone else's home and offloading their kids onto them! wink

Cherrytree59 Thu 19-Apr-18 14:09:32

I think that if a poster has migrated from MN then they are more likely to use the AIBU when starting a new thread.
For some strange reason MN posters often state they are posting on AIBU as it gets more traffic than other site threads.

Panache sadly I have never heard a cuckoo's callsad

Luckygirl Thu 19-Apr-18 13:28:59

Nothing yet - and we overlook a wood.

shysal Thu 19-Apr-18 13:08:06

I think I heard one while still in bed yesterday morning but not sure whether I had dozed off and was dreaming! Every year a cuckoo starts up here at around 4am, most days in May, when I am usually already awake. I love to hear it.

grannyactivist Thu 19-Apr-18 12:30:35

Hello Panache. smile
When starting a new thread it's best if you click on 'Forums' (purple heading at the top of the page) and then choose the topic that best fits your post; so 'chat' for instance. This topic - AIBU: Am I Being Unreasonable? - is more suited to people who are venting about difficult situations than delightful poems.
It helps our lovely friend Phoenix (other lovely friends are available) to help keep her knickers unknotted if people post under the correct thread headings and gives us all a clue about the nature of the posting. grin

JackyB Thu 19-Apr-18 11:50:36

On my way to work, I cycle through a natural park and hear the cuckoo every year. This year it seemed late, although I don't actually keep a book. I heard the first one the day before yesterday.

By the end of May, though, it gets on your nerves!

merlotgran Thu 19-Apr-18 11:32:24

Do I detect a despairing tutting sound coming from phoenix? grin

Greyduster Thu 19-Apr-18 11:21:37

Heard one last year out in the Peak District. If we hear one a year, we count ourselves lucky these days, yet, like Grandma70s, they were a regular feature of early summer walks when I was a child. I always find it odd that we all look forward to hearing that they are around, when they’re really pretty beastly in their habits toward other birds. Reed warblers, particularly, suffer from their predations. But, that’s mother nature.

phoenix Thu 19-Apr-18 11:07:37

No, YANBU.

henetha Thu 19-Apr-18 11:03:58

We get them around here, but I haven't heard one yet this year. We don't hear them as much as we used to, I think their numbers have dropped quite badly.

Grandma70s Thu 19-Apr-18 10:57:07

Sadly, I haven’t heard a cuckoo for many years. When I was a teenager in the 1950s, they used to drive me mad with their constant repetitive call. Now, I’d love to hear it.

Panache Thu 19-Apr-18 10:31:56

Has anyone heard the distinctive call of the cuckoo yet?

As a child and youngster it was always a treat to be the first to hear that call,we lived in the heart of the countryside and it was an annual visit,making us feel Spring had well and truly arrived with summer virtually “on our doorstep”

We then spent some 25 years living on the coast where sadly, we never once heard that call.
Although now back in the country for some 14 years we still have not had this joy.

Of course it has quite a journey to travel from Africa and due to our inhospitable winter perhaps it is going to be a late arriving this year.