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Any words or phrases that you can't stand?

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Dinahmo Mon 10-Feb-20 18:05:23

An early phrase that I loathe is "can I get" but a more recent one is the word curate which is used in place of collect, or select etc. Recent examples:

The Guardian" the BBC's failure to curate some news event responsibly"

A description of someone's collection of china pig money boxes (once given away free) as being "carefully curated"

A delicatessen which provides "a perfectly curated picnic"

To my mind the misuse of the word devalues the work of museum and gallery curators.

rosenoir Mon 10-Feb-20 21:17:44

It is what it is
Everything happens for a reason
Calling a group of people you guys
Groups of women that call themselves girls

CanadianGran Mon 10-Feb-20 21:24:52

Hmmm, I use hubby often. I see it as endearing and less formal than husband. Didn't realize it could cause any grating of teeth.

It's etymology is from 17th century; a familiar form of the word husband. Won't change my ways...smile

boheminan Mon 10-Feb-20 21:34:44

When two ten year olds serving in a local shop responded to my rummaging around for my purse with 'Aww, Bless' - are they clergy in disguise? No! No! No!angry

ExperiencedNotOld Mon 10-Feb-20 21:37:30

Passed (rather than died)
Rainbow bridge
Fur baby
That’s really weird that (a colleague says that far too often)
My entitlement
I’ve got me rights
Getting paid (for receiving benefits)

annodomini Mon 10-Feb-20 21:42:28

Just about everything everyone else has said!

NotAGran55 Mon 10-Feb-20 21:53:35

Gotten
Hubby
Like - used every other word !

ananimous Mon 10-Feb-20 22:03:37

I hate it when people forget the full stop/period. Sloppy.

Naty Mon 10-Feb-20 22:15:18

"Go to the toilet"

Gross. Let's say "bathroom" instead.

HettyMaud Mon 10-Feb-20 22:21:56

"in a heartbeat".

Callistemon Mon 10-Feb-20 22:25:54

I do like discombobulated winterwhite
Sorry blush

Grandbaby
Furbaby
From the get go
Back in the day

And all the ones posted above (except discombobulated!)

And I would say 'loo' not 'bathroom

Anniebach Mon 10-Feb-20 22:30:51

Hubby

At this moment in time

Good question , when asked a question.

The wife

Furbaby

Bridgeit Mon 10-Feb-20 22:35:07

Passed ( same here Experiencednotold)
I have to bite my tongue in order not to make a comment.

Doodledog Mon 10-Feb-20 22:44:17

'Uni'
'Weird/bizarre' for 'a bit odd'
Hubby (and sorry, but also all the 'DH', 'DS', 'DGD' etc on here)
'At the end of the day, I turned around and was like. . .'
'Them things'

chocolatepudding Mon 10-Feb-20 22:55:21

Sentences beginning so...........

My pet hate is .....so what!

Callistemon Mon 10-Feb-20 22:57:44

Using the word 'watched' instead of looked after, eg 'I watched the DGC until they started school.'

rosenoir Mon 10-Feb-20 23:07:43

The unnecessary or incorrect use of amazing, awesome and literally.

SueH49 Mon 10-Feb-20 23:18:26

I'm afraid that I regularly use many of the phrases that others loathe. "Going to the toilet" is one of them although I do usually say loo. In many cases if I asked to go to the bathroom I would end up in a bathroom that does not have a toilet when what I want is the toilet.

My most loathed phrase is - my bad.

Doodledog Mon 10-Feb-20 23:46:17

I've remembered another one - 'it was hysterical', instead of 'hilarious'.

Coolgran65 Tue 11-Feb-20 00:41:49

I’m with Luckylegs. I hate basically ...... especially starting every other sentence !!

BradfordLass73 Tue 11-Feb-20 03:10:04

The use, lamentably often, of 'prodigal' to mean 'returning.
It does not mean returning.

Insightful instead of the perfectly good English word 'perceptive'.

'brackish' (water) to mean dirty. It means a mixture of salt and fresh, so unless you've nipped to the estuary to fill a bucket, the water in it isn't brackish.

'Bear with...' Even 'please bear with me' is bad enough.
'Long time no see' ugh.
'Kudos' used as a single word and 'hats off to you.'

I thought 'curate' simply meant 'taken care of' ? So a curated collection of pottery pigs would make me grunt into my trough.

Nansnet Tue 11-Feb-20 08:17:29

A 'cheeky' Nando's/or whatever else is cheeky!

We had a 'proper' good laugh/good time.

off of

gotten

Autumnal ... Don't know why, it just irritates me!grin Why not just Autumn? Autumn weather/leaves/etc. We don't say Winteral/Summeral/Springal.

travelsafar Tue 11-Feb-20 08:22:18

'Random' when talking about doing something unplanned!!!!

travelsafar Tue 11-Feb-20 08:23:10

Oh and the expression 'Robust going forward' what ever that means!!!

Brunette10 Tue 11-Feb-20 08:23:42

Can't stand when a pregnant lady states that 'I'm about to drop it". A very uncouth phrase I would say.

TwiceAsNice Tue 11-Feb-20 08:30:10

People who say was when grammatically it should be were, it really annoys me every time