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Changing my User Name

(34 Posts)
ExD Fri 07-Aug-20 17:18:30

Am I stupid or am I stupid?
Well, I am a bit long in the tooth sad Too old to know better? sad
I'll be more careful in future.

Bluebellwould Fri 07-Aug-20 16:45:56

If you google your user name you will be shocked to see all your posts in a long line. There is absolutely nothing confidential on here.

Riverwalk Fri 07-Aug-20 16:45:01

I confessed, in passing, not long ago on a thread on here that'd I'd changed my name and got quite a number of quite abusive replies which puzzled me.

I'm puzzled by that too - as one of the few on here who has never changed username. I've never 'flounced' with a bold announcement of departure - only to return under a new name!

MerylStreep Fri 07-Aug-20 16:41:56

ExD
I think you need to educate yourself on the policies of GN.
It isn't a cosy little chat amongst virtual friends.
Threads have appeared in the Daily Mail. It is also on FB.

AGAA4 Fri 07-Aug-20 16:28:24

It is totally reasonable to change your user name if you think someone could trace you.
If there was someone I didn't want to find me, I would be very careful about the username I choose.

Alishka Fri 07-Aug-20 16:27:49

Absolutely not! I'm an infrequent poster but serial name changer. I have my reasons.
btw this forum isn't a 'confidential kind of group* , is freely accessed by anyone, so that too might influence your decision too.

Chewbacca Fri 07-Aug-20 16:26:34

Plus, the details of that particular thread were quite unique and so anyone who was aware of the circumstances of the situation would easily be able to put 2 and 2 together.

MissTree Fri 07-Aug-20 16:24:22

No. I don’t think so. Maybe her user name gave the OP of that thread a big clue to where she lives. I could guess.

ExD Fri 07-Aug-20 16:18:39

Quite early on I changed my User name on here, because it was obvious that anyone who knew me could easily guess who I am from the very obvious name I'd chosen.
I confessed, in passing, not long ago on a thread on here that'd I'd changed my name and got quite a number of quite abusive replies which puzzled me.
BUT reading the thread 'Moving away from family' I see the OPs husband has traced her on here from her user name, so I'm glad I changed mine.
But it makes me uneasy that he was able to trace her so easily when surely this is a confidential kind of group?
Was I being unreasonable?