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English language - where is it going to? AIBU

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TwinLolly Sat 21-Nov-20 10:33:46

Maybe I'm being unreasonable and very menopausal but there are words that are getting under my skin.

* "Co-worker" seems to be a new word for colleague.

* "Super" this and "super" that instead of "very" or "huge", etc.

* "Denied", e.g. as in "he/she was denied entry" - instead of "refused entry", or other cases where the world "refused" would make more sense than the word "denied".

* Where has the word "donated" gone to. It's now "gifted".

* I get confused when reading a newspaper or magazine article where people are now referred to by their surnames only without the Mr/Mrs/Miss/Ms. I lose the plot as to who is who confused. I'd prefer to referred to as Mrs Surname or my first name.

There are other words too, but I can't think of them now.

Rant over. Sorry! blush

Bellanonna Sun 29-Nov-20 19:02:43

Does the thread title need the “to” ?

hollysteers Sun 29-Nov-20 18:52:54

“Gonna” rather than going to. Just hate it.

FannyCornforth Sun 29-Nov-20 18:38:17

Oh good lord, I hate 'you guys'.
Bleurghenvyangry

hollysteers Sun 29-Nov-20 18:33:54

‘You guys” gets my goat, Prince Harry uses this a lot...
Beth something or other on TV news CANNOT manage a ‘t’ or ‘ing’. Has she a hidden desire to be a rapper? It certainly doesn’t sound very professional and she’s on a lot.
I’m now trying not to be stuffy about ‘gotten’?

sodapop Sun 29-Nov-20 13:06:07

On the face of it Nanny27 the 'Rainbow Bridge' does seem a bit twee but if it offers some comfort to pet owners at a difficult time then I'm all for it. Our JR was put to sleep a month ago now and I still look for his little face every morning when I come downstairs.

nanna8 Sun 29-Nov-20 10:30:13

I don't like the way they say 'so' before everything here now. Not sure why,it just sounds kind of affected. Do you have that there,too? I used to dislike 'yair right' but I have weakened and use it myself now for when you don't believe something.

Georgesgran Sun 29-Nov-20 02:11:53

My daughter went from Newcastle to work in Sheffield. When she was doing the rota, staff would ask to work 2 while 8, or 8 while 2 - rather than ask to work from 2 to 8, as we’d say up here. It just sounds odd.
My SIL in Cheshire always says she ‘goes work’ or her son ‘goes golf’ missing out the verbs.

BrandyGran Sat 28-Nov-20 22:30:46

Some folk where I live say they are "waiting on the bus" instead of "waiting for the bus". Even TV reporters have been heard to say they are "waiting on a certain politician" to make a statement. I always imagine them sitting on the politician's shoulders!

BrandyGran Sat 28-Nov-20 22:20:11

Also could someone tell me what is the difference between "booking" and "pre-booking"?Up until a few years ago we just "booked".

BrandyGran Sat 28-Nov-20 22:17:12

"Going forward" instead of "in the future" we will do a certain thing.
One that really grates because of over use is "no pressure then!" We watch Bargain Hunt and that expression is used all the time! My husband wonders aloud why absolutely everything is "amazing!"

buylocal Wed 25-Nov-20 14:25:20

incidences instead of incidents
big 'of' a deal - why the preposition?

hallgreenmiss Tue 24-Nov-20 12:08:01

grandMattie

“Global pandemic “. When will people understand that “pandemic” means worldwide? Why not got the whole ho* and say “world global pandemic”?

Actually, pandemic means throughout an entire country, continent, or the whole world. It’s therefore not wrong say global pandemic.

rockgran Tue 24-Nov-20 12:00:30

I have always been annoyed by the use of "Holidays" instead of "Christmas" but as it stems from "Holy Day" I suppose it is in fact correct. (...although I still prefer "Merry Christmas'.)
I watch a lot of craft programmes and the presenters often mangle the language in an attempt to keep talking. I actually feel a bit sorry for them as they try to avoid "dead air".

Nannan2 Tue 24-Nov-20 11:33:07

Oh my word ixion- yes that is the one i hate too! ?

Nanny27 Tue 24-Nov-20 11:24:20

Me too anno, I look at my beautiful, dignified labrador lying at my feet as I type this and imagine referring to her as a 'fur baby'!

annodomini Tue 24-Nov-20 10:53:53

Oh yes, Nanny27. I can imagine that this would offend a few of our members, but every one of those expressions makes me cringe!

Nanny27 Tue 24-Nov-20 10:25:28

Could this possibly be the right place to air my loathing of those twee words used by pet owners:
Fur baby - yuk yuk yuk
Over. The rainbow Bridge - more yuks
Go potty - oh really!

BlueSky Tue 24-Nov-20 08:51:58

‘My bad’ only recently found out what it means. grin
‘Empowered’ now over used word, grates on my nerves!
I remember when my DGC started to reply “I’m good” thought they were saying it wrong, now most people say it!

Chardy Mon 23-Nov-20 21:45:54

On TV this morning, the Royal Correspondent no less said 'must of'!! Grrr

'Eat healthy' grrr

Luckygirl Mon 23-Nov-20 17:45:32

Just looked it up:

Gotten' is, in fact, an ancient English word that was in use in England at the time America was colonized by the English. Over the centuries, the Americans kept on using it and the English did not. Origin: 1150-1200

Isn't language wonderful? If I had written gotten in school I would have got the ruler over the knuckles!

Luckygirl Mon 23-Nov-20 17:43:35

The introduction of the word "gotten" is fascinating - it is becoming commonplace now. I wonder whether it is a US import, or whether it is in fact old English.

Luckygirl Mon 23-Nov-20 17:40:58

I manage not to get exercised over language developing - it is what all languages do.

MamaCaz Mon 23-Nov-20 17:16:40

Nothing wrong with 'wrap up warm', as far as I am concerned. I would say it describes the desired end result, rather than the action - is it even possible to do that action 'warmly'?

Grandma70s Mon 23-Nov-20 14:46:13

I posted that without editing properly. Disregard the last line.

Grandma70s Mon 23-Nov-20 14:44:01

Has anyone mentioned ‘lie’ and ‘lay’? They are hopelessly confused by many people. When I hear something about laying on the bed I want to ask whether they are laying eggs or bricks.


“I was tired so I laid on the bed” I want to ask