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grannyactivist Tue 20-Aug-13 12:27:54

Many of you know that I'm fostering two Afghan boys (16 and 17)under a private fostering agreement. Their father pays a small amount towards their food costs and they help a little around the house (they're actually willing but hopeless), but they have very limited means. The boys are currently sharing one laptop, but when they return to school in September the requirements of the course (Customer Service NVQ) mean that ideally they should have a laptop each. I could stretch to buying one for them, but I know they already feel slightly awkward about me buying their toiletries and all of their language materials, which are very expensive - and, more importantly from my point of view, I wouldn't buy laptops for my own children: they were all encouraged to get jobs and earn enough money to buy their own. My Afghan boys can't get jobs yet because their English is still very limited and their priority must be on improving their language skills and studying. So I was wondering if anyone knows whether it might be worth me approaching the Lion's or Rotary Clubs and asking if they would buy one?

Elegran Wed 16-Oct-13 21:22:07

Gald to hear there will be a Result, GA!

Could I send the assistants from the co-op for a few smiling lessons? I have just had my purchases rung up, the money taken, and the change given to me by a young man who did not once look me in the eye or speak to me other than to tell me the total. The only thank you was mine , when he handed me the change. He then turned back to his colleague and continued the conversation I had so inconveniently interrupted.

shysal Thu 17-Oct-13 08:16:32

I am pleased it went well, hope the outcome is positive.

Deedaa Thu 17-Oct-13 22:40:39

So glad it's looking hopeful. If your boys aren't a deserving case I don't know what is and I'm sure they would make good use of a laptop.

grannyactivist Wed 18-Dec-13 10:47:33

Here's an update for those of you kind enough to take an interest:
Following on from their visit I received a phone call from the town Rotary Club asking me to also approach The Lions which I duly did. The Lions asked me to approach a second Rotary Club that covers the valley, which I didn't even know existed. The second Rotary Club said a direct 'no', on the basis that if the boys need a laptop for their education the school should supply one. All of this was over the period until a couple of days ago when the Town Rotary Club phoned and told me that they WILL purchase a refurbished laptop for the boys and they should have it soon after Christmas. (tchgrin cheer!)
Many thanks to those of you who offered to help with this, you're a great bunch of people.

LizG Wed 18-Dec-13 10:49:50

That's really good news - so pleased tchsmile

Ariadne Wed 18-Dec-13 10:54:10

Good!

Ariadne Wed 18-Dec-13 10:54:41

The mills of Rotary can grind very slowly...smile

glammanana Wed 18-Dec-13 12:32:51

Fabulous news GA so pleased for them & you .

shysal Wed 18-Dec-13 16:07:25

Great news GA, your efforts have paid off. I hope the boys enjoy the laptop.

Deedaa Wed 18-Dec-13 21:13:17

Great News - I hope they enjoy it tchsmile

grannyactivist Wed 18-Dec-13 22:53:11

I've just been in to wish the lads goodnight as we're off on holiday tomorrow. They will be spending the days we're away with their dad and just sleeping here whilst we're gone. Our lovely lodger will be keeping an eye on them.
We've just given them their presents, with instructions that they are not to be opened until Christmas Day. We have bought them a rug each from Afghanistan to go by their bedsides, so that last thing at night and the first thing in the morning they will be reminded of home. The rugs were hand weaved by homeless girls and boys who are apprentice carpet makers for a social enterprise in Kabul. The boys are both very excited. tchgrin I do wish I could be here to see them open them.

Penstemmon Wed 18-Dec-13 22:58:06

Good news GA! Glad the lads will have laptop soon!

grannyactivist Thu 02-Jan-14 11:46:39

Hooray!! Three lovely Rotarians have just spent an hour with the boys and delivered a refurbished laptop. grin
The youngest will be seventeen tomorrow and his brother will be eighteen on the ninth of January. They don't usually celebrate birthdays so it will be good to spoil them a little.

Deedaa Thu 02-Jan-14 21:15:46

What a lovely start to the New Year and it coincides with their birthdays! My son's is on the 9th smile

GadaboutGran Fri 03-Jan-14 15:15:44

Great news ga. Aren't they lucky to have such a wonderful foster mum.