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Rexdog12 Mon 17-Apr-17 13:16:09

Hi all, a bit of a legal and ethical question here.
Shortened version ("still a bit long, sorry)
My husbands mother ( age 92) has survived her husband by 30 years. There are 3 sons , now all in 50s/60's themselves. The family house was originally in the name of their father. This was not changed for 20 years. The mother originally had a will that the 3 sons would inherit equally. My husband and his youngest brother just found out that, 10 years ago,the middle brother got their mum to sign the deeds of the house over to him. We don't know why. He never consulted or told his brothers about his actions. Their mum now has dementia and is too old and frail now for us to discuss it with her. The middle son has also mysteriously now got the will under lock and key and won't show his brothers. We don't know for sure but suspect that was changed too, given he is not willing to show us a copy. Middle brother refuses to discuss it and my question is, what, if anything is to be done now? We don't think the house was sold as such to him, just that when he took his mum to ostensibly get the deeds changed from their dad to their mum, he simply had them signed over to himself. Does this mean the two other brothers have to accept this?

eilys Tue 18-Apr-17 20:53:18

Worked for social services saw this happen on a regular basis familyhoping the parents live for 7years then very little to pay for care I think it is immoral & greedy

M0nica Wed 19-Apr-17 06:40:33

Solicitor's usually write to the beneficiaries after the death, to inform them they are to inherit and how much, but a will only becomes public once probate is proved. It is then held in the Probate Office records and a copy can be obtained online for £10.00.

Jayanna9040 Wed 19-Apr-17 09:24:09

Oh yes, meant before death. Totally private before then and has been known for people to have several different wills drawn up and witnessed lurking in their cupboards, ready to be torn up when someone annoys them.

Rexdog12 Thu 20-Apr-17 15:54:27

Thanks all for advice. Quick update: Ss are involved now, as she recently had to go to hospital following a fall and over last couple of weeks, Various professionals have been in from nurses to occupational therapist and as social services are now involved they asked if she owned her house. She said she did (she didn't remember or understand that she signed it over) so younger brother has given them details of mb address and phone, and they are going to contact him! In meantime, carers now coming in so help for rest of family, especially yb. Will look into land registry and wait to see what comes from ss.

Ilovecheese Thu 20-Apr-17 17:37:13

You might want to listen to an episode of "Money Box" on BBC iplayer about care home fees and property ownership. Although if she is in hospital fees will not apply, they will do if she is discharged into a care home.