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How do you choose - there are so many good ones?

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Applegran Mon 26-Nov-18 10:25:11

If you have enough income to be able to give to charity - how do you choose which ones to give to? And if you give regularly all the year round , do you add one or two at Christmas? Where I live I find people often want to support local charities, which are important, but I feel drawn to donate to people, often further away, who are in the most desperate need. Homeless, starving, ill with curable diseases like leprosy, children in war zones, blind people, deaf people , wounded people, and there is tree planting and other actions desperately needed to help the environment. So many charities doing good work - and I know they are not all perfect, and some have done awful things, but good work is being done in the world, and it is surely "better to light a candle than to rail against the darkness" How do you choose?

Lorelei Wed 28-Nov-18 07:08:28

I can no longer afford to support all the charities that I would like to be able to contribute towards, so tend to stick to a few that mean a lot to me. Our local hospice is one I will always give what I can to, have done voluntary work for in one of their shops and helped at events/fundraisers - I even used to take trolleys (that had been abandoned by the cab rank outside the shop) back to supermarkets and collect the £1 coins then pop the money in the till - some weeks that could be £10-£20! Hope that one day I'll be able to do more voluntary work for them.

A local animal charity also gets our support - we donate cash when we can and have given extra a few times when they have had urgent appeals for help. I enter quite a few comps and donate the odd prize when I've been lucky enough to win something they could use (have had cat food, cat milk, horse feed, supplements, various treats and toys etc for the animals + a few bits they could use for raffle prizes or could sell at fundraisers + shopping vouchers). One comp I entered but didn't win even contacted me and offered to donate a few bags of horse feed directly to them as they liked my entry, which I thought was a nice touch and was much-appreciated by the charity. On the rare times I've won a little bit of money I give them a bit extra too (still waiting for that big cash win, lol). My better half and his business partner have given them practical help by supplying some materials and their time to build/fix things, and their company donates cash a few times a year. When I do get my lazy arse into gear to ebay a few bits, I more often than not put the charity donation between 10% and 100% depending on what the item is and its value, as this is a good way for me to be able to give them a little more without making personal finances even tighter. I like being able to give them stuff I know they need.

Apart from the aforementioned hospice and animal charity...there is a wildlife charity, an annual few quid to the Poppy appeal and the odd PDSA raffle tickets - about all I can stretch to these days.

Anja Wed 28-Nov-18 07:29:53

I donate to the Lullaby Trust who fund research into cot deaths and support parents who have lost children. I also donate to Great Ormand Street Hospital.

TwiceAsNice Wed 28-Nov-18 08:57:29

I give to a Welsh children's cancer charity where I used to live and where my son had his treatment. It pays for children and their families to have treats or the children in isolation because of their compromised immune systems to have brand new toys to play with ( they can't have used ones because of germs). I am also putting a young girl through school in Uganda, I will continue to do it as long as she stays in education. She wants to be a doctor to help her own people. Both of these I pay by DD to cover all expenses. I give occasionally to collectors I see in the street as well but like supporting two things close to my heart.

TwiceAsNice Wed 28-Nov-18 09:01:01

On a non money basis I knit children's jumpers for a Romanian orphanage. One of our local centres send them out with other aid on a regular basis

newnanny Wed 28-Nov-18 12:11:37

Our main charity donation is Samaritan's Purse so we buy small toys, rubix cubes, cars, stationery and soap, flannel and toothbrush and toothpaste, hat and gloves, enough to make 10 boxes I do them for boys because I was once told by person who collects these boxes they get fewer for boys than girls. We spend about £15 per box and a further £5 per box postage. We contribute to poppy day, Pudsey, McMillan cake day, etc just a £5 for each. We also pay scouts/cub/Brownies to pack our shopping (or actually to not pack our shopping) if supermarket running campaign or will contribute to anyone with official collecting tin. We contribute more to disaster funds such as floods or famines. We also make regular financial contributions to a family member student who does not get any financial support from her parents. Our main focus is the showboxes as our nephew went one year to Romania, where they are given to orphans and the very poor, with his church to distribute these boxes and he told us children keep the boxes for years after they have consumed the contents and that it give them hope that someone out there cares about them.

newnanny Wed 28-Nov-18 12:14:22

The only charity we will no longer support is GOSH as they would not let Charlie Gard's parents take him for treatment overseas. Even if it did not work I thought his parents, having raised the cash themselves, should have been aloud to give their son one last chance. I know others may not agree but that is our view.

mcem Wed 28-Nov-18 17:28:04

In a similar GN discussion a year or two ago I was severely berated by a poster for 2 reasons..
I give to an overseas charity (Mary's Meals).
Was told off because "Charity begins at home!" and she didn't like it when I pointed out that it doesn't have to end there.
I was then called a heartless bitch because I said I'd always give to charities supporting people before I 'd give to animal charities.
At least this time round, folks seem to be agreeing to disagree.

Humbertbear Wed 28-Nov-18 18:20:44

Aspire for people with back injuries because my daughter works for them; Crisis because everyone is only a few steps away from being homeless; breast cancer research because of so many friends. I also donate to food banks and occasionally text £3 to the charity that sends sanitary protection to girls in Thirld World. They advertise in loos on the motorway. For our 50th anniversary we asked for donations to the local hospice and raised quite a bit that way.

I read that it is our generation that gives to charity, not young people but I have to keep a close watch on what and when I donate. It adds up fast.

TellNo1Ok Thu 29-Nov-18 11:21:02

Children charities ... a charity where MY contribution will make a real difference ... Plan International for that one girl in Nepal ... Smile Train for children with cleft palates ... costs so little and transforms young lives ... Child Line ... once visited their offices and was hugely impressed with their work...
Then all the ones i cant resist ... MsF Air Ambulance and half a dozen others plus one off donations to Children in Need and emergency appeals...
Sounds a lot put down like this but it isn't ... it's not even 5% of our pension income...
And the first three are remembered in our Will.

ditzyme Thu 29-Nov-18 11:31:54

I always, always will support my local Hospice, a wonderful place where I had the honour of working many years ago. I give all year round, but not in a monetary way, but in making craft items for their charity shop. I also do the same for a Sue Ryder shop, an organisation I volunteered for briefly in the 90s. I support my nearest food bank and Macmillan nurses too, since they were a great help when my late mother-in-law had terminal cancer. There are so many deserving causes, but I believe that charity begins at home and also donate at Christmas to Crisis. The rest, I go with my heart.

ayse Thu 29-Nov-18 15:48:49

I try to support our local hospice by donating unwanted goods, furniture etc. and buy from them where possible. All my small change goes to our local shop that donates to prem baby units. They always publicise the results of their collections. Small donations also to Marie’s Curie and Poppy Day. I generally avoid national and international charities as they seem to pay over inflated salaries to their top dogs.