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Over anxious about bad things happening to my granddaughter

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Carolanne1 Wed 02-Dec-20 16:48:26

Please help! I have a beautiful 3 year old granddaughter. I'm worried all the time that something awful will happen to her. I mean it plays on my mind every day & can't be healthy. I worry about her getting lost, running into the road, being snatched, anything you can think of, it's gone through my mind. She fell down the stairs when she was 2 & broke her arm, so it's been worse since then. Please tell me if anyone else has these intrusive thoughts. I'm normally not an anxious person, but when it comes to my precious granddaughter, I worry about everything. I would be so grateful if someone can help me. Thank you

Pshot Tue 09-Mar-21 22:20:28

I am so glad I found this! I worry about all sorts happening to my 11 month old granddaughter. I have to forceably try to push these thoughts from my head. They have no basis- my D and SIL are great but I think of worse case scenarios and how could I cope if something happened to her. I realise that now feels selfish as I am focusing on myself. One of the replies above has said it will be easier when - fingers crossed- I have more GC and I sincerely hope this is true. I have taken to heart all of the comments I have read. Thank you.

Pshot Wed 21-Dec-22 19:55:24

5 minutes ago i asked google the question why do i worry about something happening to my gd and this thread came up. I am so very very grateful to this thread. I worry about anything and everything happening to my gd. I read something in a book and immediately think it could happen to her. I must admit I thought I was alone feeling like this and actually started to think there was something wrong with me so thank you everyone for making me feel not so alone. Someone put a link that may be useful and I will go back and click on it and will do some research on cbt also mentioned. Thank you all.