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Advice to the younger generation.

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Student1 Thu 08-Dec-22 21:56:39

If you could offer any advice to younger people such as myself, what would you say?

Sago Thu 08-Dec-22 22:02:18

Social media is 90% b***** t.

Mollygo Thu 08-Dec-22 22:04:37

If you spend more time on social media than you do talking to real people, you’ve already got problems.

LadyHonoriaDedlock Thu 08-Dec-22 22:05:54

Don't do it!

MerylStreep Thu 08-Dec-22 22:07:24

Don’t sweat the small stuff. Try very very hard not to worry because most of what seems insurmountable generally turns out to be meaningless.

Spice101 Thu 08-Dec-22 23:28:07

Enjoy yourself but live within your means

Student1 Thu 08-Dec-22 23:36:21

Student1

If you could offer any advice to younger people such as myself, what would you say?

Sago If I could earn a pound for every time I find it harder and harder to distinguish a realistic body from the airbrushed ones presented in the media, I would be a billionaire by now.

Most of the time it is usually influencers who do things like alter how they look, but there are kids as young as 12 feeling bad about how they look because they can't live up to the aesthetics of Instagram or Twitter.

nanna8 Fri 09-Dec-22 00:06:18

Couldn’t hand out advice. I wouldn’t listen when I was young and I am sure most wouldn’t now. You got to work it all out yourselves.

Redhead56 Fri 09-Dec-22 02:06:03

Trust your gut feeling and if you go out with friends go home with friends always never go it alone.

NotAGran55 Fri 09-Dec-22 06:09:10

Even as a journalist have some scruples would be my advice.

BlueBelle Fri 09-Dec-22 06:17:17

Totally agree Nanna8

I wouldn’t dream of giving them advice they are twice as clued up as I was, I was green as grass a bd wouldn’t want to take advice I slept walked into a marriage because I was so ‘in love’ and blind to being able to be a strong woman in my own right When one of my granddaughters was recently dumped by a boyfriend (they had been friends for years before moving to a relationship) about a week later he said I ve made a big mistake can we try again She said never you had your chance (I d have been grateful and gone trotting back)

halfpint1 Fri 09-Dec-22 06:18:11

Cut the junk food, life is clearer without it

Whiff Fri 09-Dec-22 06:21:06

No advice as we all have to learn by our own mistakes. It's only when you get older and look back you think if only I knew then want I do know but it wouldn't change anything . You can't put the clocks back or change who you are. Without mistakes you don't learn. You do get wiser as you get older. But it's only by making mistakes young you learn that.

Anyway the younger me would never have thought things that have happened in my life would happen.

Just life your life to the full mistakes and all.

kittylester Fri 09-Dec-22 06:47:43

Love it, not a gran!

BigBertha1 Fri 09-Dec-22 06:54:50

Sleep on it. Don't make rushed decisions.

ParlorGames Fri 09-Dec-22 07:08:16

Use today to learn from the mistakes made yesterday to influence a better tomorrow.

Hetty58 Fri 09-Dec-22 07:51:41

Our advice is probably way out of date - so take your pick but bear that in mind.

My offering? Don't miss out and be a 'coulda, woulda, shoulda' - just do!

Maxifly1 Fri 09-Dec-22 08:37:22

Don't smoke. Look after your teeth. Be yourself, don't get involved in toxic people. Cultivate an honest way of communicating without confrontation.