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Thubbing - are you guilty?

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dorsetpennt Mon 05-Aug-13 09:08:47

Thubbing is the name given to those people who constantly check their mobile phones for texts and e-mails during social occasions. Like weddings, dinner parties and so forth. Brought to mind a story told to me by a colleague at work.
Her lawyer daughter [lives in London] went on a first-time date with another lawyer she worked with in town. He took her to an extremely good restaurant and she was prepared to enjoy herself. She did not. He constantly received and made calls and texts during the meal, he also 'table-hopped' throughout . During this table-hopping he actually sat down with some friends and shared a glass of wine with them leaving the young lady stranded. She rose and gestured she was going to the loo but instead she caught a cab and went home.
The next morning he tackled her about this and accused her of being rude leaving after HE had treated her to a lovely meal. He was incredulous when she told him the reason why.

tiggypiro Tue 06-Aug-13 08:26:28

Ditto Butty (except my technology speed is pretty slow) My DD insisted I got a phone 7 years ago because I was hacking out on my own - but nothing new in that. I have pay as you go and so far in more than 7 years have spent about 15 pounds. Is this a record?

Butty Tue 06-Aug-13 09:01:03

I would have said I'd beat you to the record, tiggy, but I'm off on a bit of solo travelling in a few weeks, for a month, where I might need to rack-up a hefty bill if things don't go according to plan! smile

dorsetpennt Tue 06-Aug-13 09:20:13

To add to my own thread and so I'm not branded as some sort of luddite :- I embrace new technology, I have used a personal computer for years and have had a mobile phone for at least 12 years. However, it has killed the art of conversation and spelling, it should be used wisely and not loudly when sitting say on a bus. It should be in your pocket/handbag unless you are needed in an emergency. Why people have phones and then have them turned off. Why? Might as well not bother and just used your normal landline.

Pittcity Wed 07-Aug-13 14:57:53

I love my smartphone and find it very useful. It is my phone, diary, newspaper, dictionary, crossword, telephone, laptop, calculator, loyalty card, tv guide, radio, cd player, weatherman, camera, library, A-Z, notepad, torch, train & bus timetable, encyclopaedia and much more.
My life and my handbag are so much less cluttered smile
But I make sure that all but the essential notifications are turned off and have even set it up to tell people I'll call them back so that I do not turn into a "phubber"
I find it has freed me up like never before. No more waiting in for an important call. Never miss a TV programme because I can set remote recordings..my PVR is a godsend too! Never be the last to find out an important news story. Always able to locate a wandering husband.....the possibilities are endless.
Only yesterday DD1 and I were discussing the fact that my 2 year old GS would never know a world without this technology...