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Rufus2 Mon 06-Aug-18 10:55:44

My 2 recently acquired friendly maggies appear to have "dumped" me! They seem to have deserted my breakfast table; presumably they've found better digs after complaining about my slow service. sad
It's not the first time I've been dumped (never a dumper), but I'm somewhat miffed after nurturing them through what has been a miserable Winter.
That's gratitude for you! It's enough to drive a man to drink, (if he wasn't there already.) Now I miss their warbling and our conversations.
I'm reminded of Spike Milligan; "I talk to the trees. That's why they put me away!" grin
Maybe they'll come to their senses soon.
It's not nice being dumped, but talking about it might ease the pain.
C'est la Vie

Rufus2 Tue 21-Aug-18 07:02:43

Rufus2 So pleased your pals have returned they obviously know where to get the best treats
Glammanana; A good news update! My recently returned Maggies are now strutting around with twigs and other construction materials in their beaks. grin
Shouldn't be too long now before they bring a family around for a sing-along.! Hope your sea-gulls are not too frightening! Ta-Ra

glammanana Mon 13-Aug-18 11:48:26

Rufus2 So pleased your pals have returned they obviously know where to get the best treats.
We have had a massive change in the weather here wind/rain/thunder/lightening so quite miserable for our bird friends.
The seagulls who congregate near the waterfront have been
flying low and some have arrived in our garden when passing over for a quick meal,they are massive and some of them are bigger than my dog !! she has taken to hiding in the kitchen when they are about they are a wee bit scary.

Rufus2 Mon 13-Aug-18 10:17:19

Joy of joys! I've been "UNDUMPED"! My 2 maggie friends were back at the kitchen window this morning, warbling away at me. It was like music to my ears! I'd like to think they've returned to see me, although it's been a sod (pardon my french) of a day again, cold, wet, leaden-grey sky all day and windy. They obviously welcomed some breakfast.
Just as I was beginning to think that birds are so fickle, mysterious and hard to understand, but we're talking to each other again.
The daffs are out in full bloom "tossing their heads in sprightly dance", but if they're not careful they'll find themselves decapitated, although I guess Bill would have turned out another poem if he'd witnessed that.! grin
Now I'm feeling guilty for neglecting to lay in some nuts and coconut shavings, so they go to the top of my shopping list tomorrow.
Btw; no chicks, but time is not of the essence yet! smile Thank you for your concerns.

HurdyGurdy Wed 08-Aug-18 21:18:14

We, too, appear to have been dumped, by the hedgehog that used to come to our front garden for dinner every night.

We were putting dog food down, which I was told is better than the traditional bread and milk, and for a couple of weeks, the food disappeared every night.

But for the past three or four nights, the food plate hasn't been touched.

I feel quite hurt!! grin

Craftycat Wed 08-Aug-18 17:03:50

I thought all our birds have deserted us but I got up at 5am the other morning- as I was so hot - to see all our bird feeders packed. I think they are just eating early in this hot weather.

oldandbold Wed 08-Aug-18 15:42:34

Squiffy your relatives near Melbourne must have more polite Kookaburras than the ones I met near Sydney at Pittwater! They just helped themselves from the veranda breakfast table, definitely without waiting to be asked! From your plate and even from your hand on the way to your mouth! Beautiful and very cheeky!

Helennonotion Wed 08-Aug-18 14:18:16

I'm not sure if this is fact or whether I've remembered it properly . Birds have something called a post nuptial moult and because they look particularly scraggy, they skulk in the undergrowth and become very anti social until they look presentable again! My Gran probably told me this! She loved her birds.

Lilyflower Wed 08-Aug-18 13:04:23

The dickeybirds stop singing past the mating season and that's why it has gone quiet.

My garden was full of all sorts of birds: starlings, pigeons, finches, blackbirds, thrushes and robins. But now they have stripped my mulberry tree bare they have departed.

Rufus2 Wed 08-Aug-18 12:56:26

. I'm sure they will be happy to replace your magpies if you are happy to feed them
anitamp; You must be psychic, even though we're half a world apart! wink
Sad to say I'm still a dumpee, but now a couple of crows/ravens have appeared; pinched the bread I'd left out on the offchance my maggies would come home. We also get a maggie look-alike known as a currawong, similar colour , but doesn't warble and keeps its distance.
Having studied birds (these feathered ones) for quite some time now, it's interesting to see their different habits.
The crows/ravens dunk their bread in the bird bath even though it's sometimes the extra soft variety. Leaves a bit of a mess, but other birds still bathe and drink the bath water! Can't complain; what with that and removal of their calling cards it keeps me active in exchange for their company. smile
And I'm counting my blessings all the time. grin
Ta-Ra

mabon1 Wed 08-Aug-18 11:51:08

If that's all you have to worry about, count your blessings

sarahellenwhitney Wed 08-Aug-18 11:14:44

We do get attached to our birds. I once allowed swallows to nest in my porch, big mistake, I got too attached and shed tears when the babies were able to leave the nest.

anitamp1 Wed 08-Aug-18 11:10:38

A couple of doors up has a huge tree in which crows nest. They make a terrible racket most mornings. They also eat the food i put out for the smaller birds. I will give them your address. I'm sure they will be happy to replace your magpies if you are happy to feed them. ?

kooklafan Wed 08-Aug-18 10:47:01

DH laughs at me because I always say Good Morning to Magpie's, his old friend Albert used to do the same and it amuses him no end, that said, I hope you're little friends realise which side their bread is buttered on soon Rufus2 and come back to you, no doubt you'll accept them back with open arm's smile

Jaycee5 Wed 08-Aug-18 10:28:09

Fennel I once took my dog for a walk through Gunnersbury Park and there were hundreds of baby ducklings on the grass. I came back about an hour later and there were masses of crows and not one duckling. There probably would have been more ducks than the lake could have coped with but it was still horrible.

clancyblue21 Wed 08-Aug-18 10:27:47

Birds are moulting at present and will be back when their feathers have re-grown.

jenni123 Wed 08-Aug-18 10:27:30

I have raucous seagulls that wake me up every day at about 3.30am, you can have those if you like. Its the same every year. When I lived in a high rise block I had one I called steven seagull that used to knock on my window until I opened it and hand fed him some bits. they are lovely looking birds but they are pests, they rip open rubbish bags, empty the rubbish bins in the parks and steal peoples food while they are eating.

caocao Wed 08-Aug-18 10:26:50

This year we had two sets of backbirds nest and fledge a couple of weeks apart. After several weeks of a garden full of fledglings they have all disappeared - I assume in search of their own territories. I feel quite bereft!

paddyann Tue 07-Aug-18 19:22:42

Be careful what you feed them.I was putting out leftover catfood for our Magpies until my 8 year old GD told me not to.."they'll grow fur ,granny,she said and they'll be confused ,they wont know whether to fly or catch flying things "

Jalima1108 Tue 07-Aug-18 15:29:45

I will send our two mating pigeons to you as a consolation prize Rufus - the further they migrate the better imo.

They are constantly fighting, flapping in and out of the hedge and creating a racket. I think we may expect a little family to appear before too long, unless she does manage to keep chasing him away.

Rufus2 Tue 07-Aug-18 15:21:05

top up of nuts and coconut shavings
Glammanana; Sorry about your missing doves. Has the hot weather driven them to cooler climes? Unusual weather patterns could bring about unexpected changes in us all, especially here when the temp. hits 40C for more than one day. sad
Everyone flees to the beach, so perhaps they've gone for a skinny-dip? wink
Nuts and coconuts sounds an interesting change to the maggies menu. I recall they liked my left-over fish and chips, so hopefully their memories are not as fickle as they might appear.
Ta-Ra; A Merseyside farewell? smile
Btw; Yes, we do get Autumn, but right now we are trying to get rid of a miserable Winter; hopefully Spring will see an improvement and of course that's when a young maggie's mind turns to thoughts of "you know what!" wink It's now past the witching hour, yet again.!

glammanana Tue 07-Aug-18 14:28:53

Rufus2 Your little friends may have gone off to build new nesting for the coming autumn (do you have autumn) ?
We have lost our pair of Doves and I am really missing them,they where here every morning waiting for their food but I have not seen them for over a week.
We have now a family of Seagulls calling in as they make their way towards the Mersey I think they stop over for a top up of nuts and coconut shavings before they arrive on the beach front which is not far from my house.

Rufus2 Tue 07-Aug-18 14:03:12

Australian magpies are quite different to the British version
Yes Jalima, they are also described as being "brash and cocky" which is why they've been adopted as mascots by so many sports clubs.! grin
Case in point in Melbourne; Collingwood footy club, otherwise known as "The Pies"! Hated by some! (many ?)
But Maggies are also known to be very clever and friendly, just like me which is probably why they took a shine to a kindred spirit; "birds of a feather"and all that! grin
OoRoo

Rufus2 Tue 07-Aug-18 13:35:18

Don’t slate me ..... could it be the time of the ...... year
Feelingmyage55: "slate"!? What's that?
Thanks for your encouragement and I'm feeling a bit happier now. I'm still a "dumpee", but today I noticed a parliament of maggies (about a dozen) gathered in the street, possibly comparing notes as to where the soft touches for a free meal are. grin
As you say, they might have got other things on their minds, like building a home and starting a family. It's that certain time of year here of course. wink
I do hope they find the time eventually to bring their chicks round for a sing-song, and I'll lay in some premium mince as a treat. They'd probably appreciate a lift in their diet and welcome a change from bread crusts and insects. Not sure of what else to get them but there's time for that later.
OoRoo

Jalima1108 Mon 06-Aug-18 14:21:22

Don't mention kookaburras Squiffy - they start cackling before dawn!

Jalima1108 Mon 06-Aug-18 14:20:16

Perhaps they've gone off to breed somewhere Rufus and will be back with their offspring - let's hope so.

Fennel Australian magpies are quite different to the British version - the only thing they seem to have in common is their colouring (hence why early migrants called them magpies).

They make a pleasant warbling sound and sometimes sing, unlike the loud screeches that ours in the UK make and I think they are much more pleasant to have around!

We thought all the sparrows had deserted us - but they must have been breeding elsewhere and have come back in force, stripping our runner beans of the flowers, little varmints.