Recently visited my newly married son aged 27 and wife aged 30, only been married 1 year. They are having my first grandchild end of oct. I am based in Blackpool , they are in Newcastle so at least 3 hours away. On a recent visit a few weeks ago was very excited to see them, as father very ill, and when got there, my son usual self, she was rude and unfriendly the whole weekend, treated me like everything too much trouble , so much so came back very upset . Have spoken today to ask when I should come up to visit new child, they are spending 1st week alone with baby, then 2nd week with her mother a whole week, son said i can come up for 3rd weekend. That is 3 weeks after birth, is it too late, should I just go up unannounced? What should I do need some help and advice with this, I am divorced and not with anyone at present and of course ex husband will need to visit with his new wife at some point. Very upset would appreciate some conversation and advice thanksx
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