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Catherine and William versus Meghan and Harry

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Artdecogran Thu 16-Jan-20 12:34:41

Looking at the latest visits for Catherine and William where they seemed to be there to learn about the groups they were visiting and to give support and praise and NOT talk about themselves; versus Meghan’s two visits which seemed to have been used to show how benevolent she is and to further lecture the ‘needy’. The 2 groups didn’t ask for a visit so if they weren’t seeking help why did she go? I had great sympathy for her but by going out on the publicity trail so soon after the Sandringham meeting, it makes me feel she’s sticking 2 fingers up to the RF, saying look I am needed over here, I can’t be bothered to do it in the UK but I can in Canada. Also I found it interesting she didn’t need to hold Harry’s hand in order to get through the visit. As per my previous post I still do feel sorry for Harry, but I have lost all sympathy for Meghan.

eazybee Sat 18-Jan-20 19:17:08

MM and her husband are castigated, not for doing things differently, but for turning their backs on the role prescribed by the family and country which provides their income, and which they think will continue to facilitate their lavish lifestyle with nothing in return.

MM is most definitely not an independent woman; she looks for others to pay the bills.

I think that is why so many of us truly independent women are so furious.

trisher Sat 18-Jan-20 18:43:32

Given the history of marriages in the RF it isn't just H&M who won't last. Apart from E&P there haven't been many long lasting ones. Sophie and Edward is the only one of that generation.
I think it's interesting to consider the role of women. Kate married and totally committed herself to the RF. Very much the dutiful wife. MM tried but didn't like it and wants to do things differently be a bit independent, for which she must be castigated.

Anniebach Sat 18-Jan-20 18:31:22

I have no idea what will happen , the monarchy will continue, but the marriage of H & M ? It will continue if he doesn’t get
fed up of being her manager andPR spokesperson.

sparkii Sat 18-Jan-20 18:24:22

I foresee they will have another baby, and a grand life and the RF will go doen the pan. Oh and bitter old bats will still be here moaning.

kittylester Fri 17-Jan-20 08:22:20

I'm inclined to agree lyndiloo and the sooner the better so Harry can move on.

Lyndiloo Fri 17-Jan-20 02:20:01

I foresee that Harry and Meghan will be divorced within the next two years. (Such a shame.) But the lifestyle that they are envisioning for themselves just won't work.

Grandma2213 Fri 17-Jan-20 01:25:40

Seems to me there is always a Royal wedding/birth/scandal etc to take our attention away from the government and what they are doing (or not doing). Cynical ... Moi?!

maddyone Fri 17-Jan-20 00:08:15

To be honest, if you don’t like it, don’t read it! Read a thread on knitting, or whatever else you’re interested in.

maddyone Fri 17-Jan-20 00:03:11

Yes easybee, I think a lot of people would like to do that.

Chewbacca Thu 16-Jan-20 23:12:28

The griping and moaning that this subject continues to be discussed goes on and on and on........

pensionpat Thu 16-Jan-20 22:56:00

I’m not usually interested in RF but the Megan and Harry show is just like a soap.

vegansrock Thu 16-Jan-20 22:51:27

The bitchfest continues, on and on......

Yehbutnobut Thu 16-Jan-20 22:46:17

What a shocking title to this thread.

Anniebach Thu 16-Jan-20 21:49:19

Does flaunting oneself guarantee a Prince ? , that’s where I went wrong, wearing an Akela skirt and jumper wasn’t flaunting was it ?

MawB Thu 16-Jan-20 21:44:15

6:07:55
Kate is no angel....she changed Universities and flaunted herself to capture a Prince. She played her cards right

Not true that she changed universities - where on earth did you get that from?
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phoenix Thu 16-Jan-20 21:30:37

The one thing (ok, not the only thing) that keeps getting me narked is this bloody Daily Mail thing (and used by some posters) of referring to her as "Kate Middleton" !

For heavens sake, how long ago did she and William get married? She is not Kate Middleton

Similarly, Diana was not Princess Diana.

(Grumpy old bag tonight)

Ngaio1 Thu 16-Jan-20 21:17:43

I think Meghan's intentions were obvious from the start. No wonder William wasn't keen! She has what she wanted anyway, a title, world wide recognition and a never ending source of income because of her son. She is now free to follow her own agenda and push brand Meghan as much as she desires.

Anniebach Thu 16-Jan-20 17:15:21

Thought so GrannyLaine thank you

GrannyLaine Thu 16-Jan-20 17:06:29

@Anniebach, she didn't. She apparently changed plans on leaving school, took a gap year and applied to St Andrews instead of Edinburgh which was her 1st choice on UCAS

Anniebach Thu 16-Jan-20 16:44:10

crazyH which University did Kate attend before St.Andrews?

grannymy Thu 16-Jan-20 16:38:45

All I want to say is that Catherine is very dignified and never seems to let herself or the royal family down.

growstuff Thu 16-Jan-20 16:36:38

The people who are fuelling this are those who seem greedy for gossip about the royal family as the ultimate soap opera.

growstuff Thu 16-Jan-20 16:35:28

How do you know what Meghan wanted?

Until all this blew up, I had taken no interest at all in Harry and Meghan. I didn't even watch their wedding.

However, it all seems so obvious that this has been created by the media. The source of allegedly knowing what Meghan wanted seems to be her own family. Frankly, they don't seem like a very pleasant bunch and I'm not in the slightest surprised that she doesn't want anything to do with them.

midnightschild Thu 16-Jan-20 16:28:18

Maybe Kate is no angel crazyH, and maybe she was determined to get William, but all respect to her, she has at least followed through on the demands of the role which became hers as a result. Not like Meghan, who wanted the royal title, but doesn’t seem prepared to undertake the responsibility that it entails.

BlueBelle Thu 16-Jan-20 16:24:44

What a nasty thread I won’t take part but I m not impressed at all with either the title or some of the posts
Artdeco are you really that innocent that you didn’t think this would cause ill feeling You wouldn’t say who is best my eldest daughter or my youngest so why would you start a thread about someone else’s children
Nasty