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Had a bad fall in the (walk-in) shower ?

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flyinghandbagisback Fri 18-Sep-20 17:12:15

Hi all,
I went for a shower around 12:45 and slipped on a wet wipe when conditioning my hair, falling and hurting my knee. I lay there for around 5 minutes then tried to get up but I couldn't manage it then ended up hurting my arm as I fell back down.

I knocked the shampoo and conditioner bottles from the alcove at the side of the shower in the process too, and the conditioner went up the wet wall and on the floor of the shower, which I didn't realise at the time.

I then lay there for a further 5 minutes trying to see if mum would come in to the house to help me up (she was out cutting the grass) but she didn't, so I decided to try to stand up (I was at the other end of the shower from the shower head, and in a corner of the shower with the alcove above my head), got half-up and then my hands slipped on the conditioner on the wall, landed on my knees which slipped on the conditioner on the shower floor, hit off the wall and ricocheted onto the shower door, so hard it opened outwards, even though it is supposed to open inwards and the clip was on.
My father heard me hitting off the door from upstairs and came in to the toilet to see if I was okay (the shower curtain was shut), realised I couldn't get up and that the floor was swimming with water due to the doors opening, and went to get mum from the garden to help me up.
It took ten minutes to get me up, and mum wanted to phone an ambulance but I forbade her as I was naked. Once she got me up, I could hardly stand, so she had to help me finish my shower then help me upstairs so I could put my clothes on.

All in all, I was on the floor of the shower for 25 minutes. My whole body hurts, especially my arm as I hurt it when I fell the second time and it bounced off the wall then I landed on it when I slipped on the conditioner.

I am very sore, but I am going to do my hair, put on my makeup and go into the garden. X

phoenix Fri 18-Sep-20 18:40:29

Vickysponge

With respect, please get your facts right.

I did not tell FH not to wear make up in the garden, I asked why she thought it necessary .

Also, why do you expect me to be courteous to someone who told me (and other members) to "fuck off"?

I have suggested some colours for outfits on "her" party thread, what more would you like me to do?

When (if) replying, please bear in mind GN guidelines.

Niobe Fri 18-Sep-20 18:41:36

We have a walk in shower. No door and no curtain. Could you post a photo of your shower FH? I am very perplexed and it would help any Gransnetters who might be contemplating having a new shower installed. We wouldn’t want anyone else to suffer as you have.

Vickysponge Fri 18-Sep-20 18:42:01

phoenix

Vickysponge

With respect, please get your facts right.

I did not tell FH not to wear make up in the garden, I asked why she thought it necessary .

Also, why do you expect me to be courteous to someone who told me (and other members) to "fuck off"?

I have suggested some colours for outfits on "her" party thread, what more would you like me to do?

When (if) replying, please bear in mind GN guidelines.

I think it’s YOU who need to remember guidelines.

Charleygirl5 Fri 18-Sep-20 18:44:31

I thought when I first read the post that it was a wet room. Silly me.

FannyCornforth Fri 18-Sep-20 18:47:59

You are so lucky to live with your parents if you are infirm.
I hope that you feel better soon.
As a side note, I too wish that I had a walk in shower.
I'm struggling to 'walk in' anything.

May7 Fri 18-Sep-20 18:48:53

FH are you sure you dont want to go to A&E to get your arm checked out?? My friends GS fell in the shower, hurt his arm and wouldnt get it checked out. It caused him no end of problems resulting in a shoulder operation 3yrs later.
luckygirl's advice is sound.

FannyCornforth Fri 18-Sep-20 18:51:50

Sorry folks and FB, I really do mean I'm sorry, but I am so hacked off with the NHS at the moment.
The government didn't 'protect' it, they closed it.

FannyCornforth Fri 18-Sep-20 18:53:05

Sorry again, FH not FB.
Sorry, I'm all over the gaff.

FannyCornforth Fri 18-Sep-20 18:57:02

Charleygirl5

I thought when I first read the post that it was a wet room. Silly me.

Charleygirl5
A wet room: as much use as a gravy table.

Charleygirl5 Fri 18-Sep-20 18:58:43

I bought a stool for my shower and I use it even when I am washing my hair. So useful.

Even a towel over you would have protected your modesty if a dressing gown was not available to pop over you.

Shock may hit you later, having had such a nasty fall and I so agree you should really get your arm checked out.

You must be extra careful in future. Were you just home from work and exhausted? I do understand.

phoenix Fri 18-Sep-20 19:08:02

Vickysponge

I'm not especially kindly disposed to someone who has told me (and others) to "fuck off".

However I did take the time to make some suggestions regarding colours on "her" party thread.

I don't copy and paste posts, unless they help to make it clear which post I am responding too.

If you think any of my posts are against or break GN guidelines, feel free to report them.

MerylStreep Fri 18-Sep-20 19:11:43

Phoenix
I take it the fuck off wasn't signed off with hugs and kisses ?

Lucca Fri 18-Sep-20 19:13:50

Oopsadaisy4

A shower door, but also a shower curtain to protect her modesty from her father.

Forward planning I guess, memo to self- in new bathroom We need a shower door and a Shower curtain.

Sorry but I don’t think you should call people unpleasant.

Lucca Fri 18-Sep-20 19:15:17

I quoted the wrong person ...that was for vickysponge.
?

Callistemon Fri 18-Sep-20 19:23:18

If the shampoo bottle falls on your toe it can be very painful and discombobulate you for a while. I know.
My friend fell in the shower and broke small bones in her hand. Dangerous places, showers.

Perhaps you should see a doctor about all these falls, FH? You could have a problem with your ears (balance).
And investing in a non-slip shower mat is a good idea too.

DiscoGran Fri 18-Sep-20 19:29:08

Maybe take a bath next time? Just a thought.....

Grandmabatty Fri 18-Sep-20 19:29:11

I'm a recent poster on GN but the OP in that time has had a great number of dramatic falls, resulting in bleeding etc. There are a couple of possibilities ; she has health issues which should mean closer supervision by her carers and doctors or she is making it up. There are a number of genuinely kind people commenting here and offering advice. I would hate to think they were being taken in. If all these 'accidents' are true, then the OP needs to address her serious health issues before posting on GN.

lemongrove Fri 18-Sep-20 19:29:30

Another tale of woe.
This time more than the handbag went flying.There is a moral in this story.......never use conditioner.?

Vickysponge Fri 18-Sep-20 19:32:16

phoenix

Vickysponge

I'm not especially kindly disposed to someone who has told me (and others) to "fuck off".

However I did take the time to make some suggestions regarding colours on "her" party thread.

I don't copy and paste posts, unless they help to make it clear which post I am responding too.

If you think any of my posts are against or break GN guidelines, feel free to report them.

I’m sorry Phoenix I didn’t realise FH had told you and others to ‘fuck off’ - now I understand your hostility.
Maybe it may be better if you just avoided FH posts in the future.

Callistemon Fri 18-Sep-20 19:33:18

Vickysponge

Leave phoenix alone.

X

Callistemon Fri 18-Sep-20 19:34:19

X post, Vickysponge

Knowledge is power

Callistemon Fri 18-Sep-20 19:35:53

^There is a moral in this story.......never use conditioner.^?

Or - Never have a shower

Baths are hazardous too. Especially ones with steep sides.

phoenix Fri 18-Sep-20 19:38:28

MerylStreep I didn't see that particular post, it was deleted before I saw it (shame, I might have framed it) but pretty sure there were no hugs, kisses or flowers!

Oh well, I'll get over it.

Vickysponge Fri 18-Sep-20 19:39:50

Callistemon

X post, Vickysponge

Knowledge is power

Ok no problem

X

MawB2 Fri 18-Sep-20 19:40:00

I’m sorry Phoenix I didn’t realise FH had told you and others to ‘fuck off’ - now I understand your hostility.
Maybe it may be better if you just avoided FH posts in the future.

Just to clarify - who was at fault in the FO scenario?
Why should Phoenix be penalised?
It’s like telling children who are victimised at school to keep out of the bullies’ way instead of addressing the behaviour issue at question