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Feel like an old fogey.

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felice Tue 13-Oct-20 10:46:31

I am a member of a Ladies group here which has over 2000 members.
Over the last few months I and others have had to point out to people the rules regarding Covid here.
One young woman wanted to go to the coast for the day and invited 3 others to join her, myself and another Woman pointed out that that is impossible and quite foolhardy.
Yesterday a Woman posted that she wanted to go Trick or Treating with her 8 year old son, she had flour and water bombs ready and does anyone want to join her!!!
I told her it is not tradition here, and at the moment definately a big no no.
Also that throwing stuff at people in a Country which has had serious terrorist attacks could get her arrested.
She says if she get a small fine for causing disruption that is not a problem to her. What a great example to her Son.
Others have also pointed out that she cannot go round ringing peoples doors just now, anyway the Belgians are not into that.
Schools are having class parties, and possibly families too.
Now I feel like the Grinch 'old Lady spoiling the Childrens fun'.
This lady has been here 1 year me 25.
Am I wrong in saying anything or should I just have let her get arrested??????

Alexa Thu 15-Oct-20 10:10:38

The ancient feeling of Samhain barely survives. Xianity tried to dumb it down with dead saints , and then American tricks and treats killed off the Xian feelings.
I suppose there is no need for Samhain any more now that Europeans seldom earn their livings as seasonal cattle herders.

Alexa Thu 15-Oct-20 10:14:40

BTW, the tradition of candles placed inside turnip or pumpkin lanterns is a remnant of the practice of surrounding the sacred place or home with empty skulls with torches inside, mounted on fences and barricades to guard against hostile forces supernatural or human.

FauxGrandma Fri 16-Oct-20 18:03:06

Nice one, Houndi! :-D

M0nica Sun 18-Oct-20 00:50:39

I doubt whether all the celtic and nordic religious festivals that everyone gets so excited about were the first ones. They probably replaced previous religious beliefs and festivals. While all religions (including Christianity) tend to have festivals round the solstices, no one knows which was the first one - and does it matter?

TrendyNannie6 Sun 18-Oct-20 14:17:57

Well I’m in the U.K. and I think it’s going to be spot the pumpkin so I will be putting one in our window the children will be walking round with their families and every time they spot one they will be given a treat from whoever is going out with them, they won’t be knocking on doors this year

moggie57 Sun 18-Oct-20 14:32:44

i wouldnt want my child to go round begging for treats .our family dont celebrate halloween at all. if you dont want to join in .leave a polite notice outside saying so. saying that back in 1999 i let my daughter go trick and treating in florida ,her one time ever. (sexy witch). halloween in the usa is totally different from in the uk. we batten down the hatches round here ,broken windows/fireworks let off by stupid youths holding the rockets /eggs down the windows.