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Does telling children fairytales make them irrational?

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Elegran Fri 06-Jun-14 10:35:27

Or does it help them learn that some stories are not true and could not possible be true, but are just tales to be enjoyed? I'd say that most fairy tales are subtle lessons in life.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-magazine-monitor-27715735

janerowena Mon 09-Jun-14 12:07:22

I loved the pressed fairies! I bought it as a birthday present for my BiL because I thought he would too - but it upset him! grin Which made me laugh even more.

AAAHappyMan Mon 09-Jun-14 14:12:25

Lilygran Mon 09-Jun-14 11:08:11
And another view .....
Thank you very much indeed for this link, Lily G. A rich vein of information leading me into all manner of capillaries.
I'd be interested to know what conclusions or new thoughts these sources opened for you?
Regards

Eloethan Mon 09-Jun-14 18:41:31

I'm not keen on fairy stories containing beautiful, helpless princesses rescued by handsome, brave princes, etc., etc., but on balance I don't see that much of an issue with them.

Many books written for children are irrational in the sense of not being based in reality - the tiger who came to tea; imaginary monsters (including the one that ate Bernard up and - unnoticed by his parents - replaced him); the duckling who was upset about being called ugly, etc. etc. In my experience, children love these books and want to read them over and over again. As long as their reading matter is mixed and also contains stories that reflect reality, I think it's OK for them to read fairy stories. Also, along with allowing children to experience imaginary worlds (and, goodness knows, with some of the difficulties children face these days it may be nice for them to "escape" for a while), some of these stories have quite valuable messages.