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Am I going doolally?

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TriciaF Wed 08-Feb-17 10:48:40

I've always had a tendency to think laterally, go off at a tangent, and I seem to be getting worse. Can't stick to the point.I'm becoming more scatty in my old age.
It was brought home to me when I was (mildly) rebuked on a gardening forum I belong to - "try to give only relevant replies!"
Any tips for controlling my mind?

Theoddbird Thu 09-Feb-17 22:52:21

Be yourself...why try and conform? You are you...live in wonder of yourself and enjoy smile

Mair Thu 09-Feb-17 23:01:09

As you imply, it's one rule for les étrangers and another for les français.

Far more sensible than Britain where the reverse applies , allowances made for foreigners an Brits have to abide by every law.

JackieBee1 Fri 10-Feb-17 05:43:18

According to a doc, dementia isn't about forgetting stuff, it's about forgetting what stuff is for. EG car keys - we all misplace them from time to time, but as long as you know what they're for, you're fine.
Happy Half Term everyone smile

absent Fri 10-Feb-17 06:19:59

I suspect that the world is, very loosely, divided between those who think logically and those who make random associations – but there are many stations in between. I know there have been many occasions when I have come up with a correct factual answer to a question by sifting through an association, say, to a movie, then a song, then to a piece of history, then to a popular myth, then to a personality, then to a particular event. I have often likened my mind to an attic crammed with cardboard boxes full of files. I know that what I want to know is in there somewhere; it's just a case of accessing the right box.

NanKate Fri 10-Feb-17 07:22:04

What a good analogy Absent smile

Anya Fri 10-Feb-17 08:12:18

That clearly explains how your thinking process works Absent. I like to believe I'm a logical thinker and work through logical and progressive thoughts to a conclusion. But I don't explain my various 'in between' stations (as you call them) so I have been accused of making 'quantum leaps'.

Same outcome but using different methods? It's just that you and I both don't verbalise the internal pathways leading from A (through X, Y & Z) to B and sometimes others get confused.

annsixty Fri 10-Feb-17 09:05:54

I have a friend with whom every single conversation is punctuated by "now where was I going with that?" I have learned to concentrate very hard so that I can get her back to the original point but sometimes she has strayed so many times I admit defeat and she has to start a new topic.
It can make having a coffee with her rather trying and I often remember afterwards that I didn't know the outcome of a particular situation.

DS64till Fri 10-Feb-17 11:02:53

So easy to do on forums , reviews etc. Got to love the 'Policing ' that goes on in forums, Facebook etc lol