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Moaning and complaining is good for your blood pressure.

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oldbatty Thu 22-Nov-18 09:41:55

Yes who would have thought it? Professor Hank Marvin writes today in the Mirror that a good old moan is actually beneficial. Moaners (not to confused with remoaners) live longer, have lower blood pressure and sharper follicles than their sunny counterparts. So go ahead, crack open a can of lager and have a good old moan.

EllanVannin Thu 22-Nov-18 09:56:08

I suppose they're likened to " creaking gates " particularly if their moans are about health problems as they're more likely to get their " moans " seen to and sorted rather than those who don't moan and keep things to themselves.

berdie Thu 22-Nov-18 09:58:33

I have a good moan, every time the news comes on, makes me feel great. My family however would disagree.

Teetime Thu 22-Nov-18 10:00:56

I'm not much of a moaner makes me feel depressed and I am always working on that.

MawBroon Thu 22-Nov-18 10:01:56

Is that the Hank Marvin who used to be in the Shadows?

toscalily Thu 22-Nov-18 10:01:58

I would take that with a pinch of salt, especially if it is the Mirror but of course your not supposed to have too much salt either if you have high blood pressure wink

merlotgran Thu 22-Nov-18 10:08:06

Career change?

MawBroon Thu 22-Nov-18 10:25:03

gringrin

SueDonim Thu 22-Nov-18 10:43:20

Drinking lager at 9:45am, Oldbatty? You could at least wait until it's time for Elevenses! grin

Sometimes it's good to moan and get things off your chest, other times it's just frustrating and makes you feel worse, I think.

BlueSky Thu 22-Nov-18 11:53:55

A good old moan yes as you need to get it off your chest, but not actually losing your temper because that would send your bp sky high! hmm

craftergran Thu 22-Nov-18 12:33:30

Yes I would agree with the prof - better out than in

Nanny23 Thu 22-Nov-18 13:11:09

No wonder my blood pressure is normal despite a horrendous year! Keep on complaining everyone gringringrin

EllanVannin Thu 22-Nov-18 13:34:13

My BP's up and down like a fiddlers elbow----best not to worry too much about it though as panic would cause it to rise even more.smile

BlueSky Thu 22-Nov-18 14:45:25

EllanVannin same here it has been sky high and low enough for me to pass out, or to have a moment of altered awareness as nicely put by the neurologist...confused

Kim19 Fri 23-Nov-18 11:32:30

I hope it would be practised in an empty room otherwise you might increase that of those who have to listen. Also you might have to share the lager!

MissAdventure Fri 23-Nov-18 11:35:44

I have a neighbour who comes into mine several times a day (if she can) specifically to moan.
She always thanks me afterwards for listening, but these last few days I have said I need some time to myself.
Now I'm worried because I can see she is just spending almost all of her time in bed.
Time to open the door and let the moaning commence, I think.

grandtanteJE65 Fri 23-Nov-18 11:39:21

Dh and I only allow ourselves, and predominantly the other one of us to moan on a Wednesday. It started as a joke when we noticed that we were spending the first half-hour after work moaning about things we either couldn't or had no intention of trying to do anything about, every single day!

We soon discovered that most of that kind of moan aren't worth remembering from Thursday until next Wednesday and that some aren't even worth holding on to from Tuesday to Wednesday. It has made life so much more pleasant NOT moaning about the weather etc. every day.

A genuine complaint can be taken up on any day of the week,

oldbatty Fri 23-Nov-18 11:47:10

Professor Hank suggests you put a limit on your neighbours moaning, Miss A. 15 minutes maximum and that moaning can be done whilst on a brisk walk.

GabriellaG Fri 23-Nov-18 14:25:50

Nothing to moan about here and my bp is 118/70, totally healthy.
It's all subjective. If you polled 10,000 professors from around the world, There would be thousands of opposing/ differing opinions so I take their spiel with a HUGE dose of salt. grin

Grammaretto Fri 23-Nov-18 14:38:25

There was a fad for positive thinking a few years back? Whatever happened to it?
I don't call it moaning but do it all the time. I suppose it makes me feel better if there's anyone to listen.

MissAdventure Fri 23-Nov-18 15:19:58

Sometimes its reasonable to moan.
It has to be the right person though.
They need to agree with you (without seeming smug) join in, and then jolly you along a bit with some black humour.

Happysexagenarian Fri 23-Nov-18 16:33:09

That would explain why my DH's blood pressure is lower than mine then!

CardiffJaguar Fri 23-Nov-18 17:57:17

It is a wellknown British trait; most of us do it and we enjoy it (though we are unlikely to admit that).

holdingontometeeth Fri 23-Nov-18 18:07:33

My OH is a constant moaner, and it certainly does no good for my blood pressure, even though I have mastered the art of selective deafness.

Squiffy Fri 23-Nov-18 18:13:00

Do you have to moan to another person or can you just mutter your moanings out loud to yourself or to thin air? I think I'm quite good at that, but it probably doesn't count!