Hi, this is my first post. I’m 53 and am perimenapausal. I now believe my symptoms started when I was 45, starting with aches in my hand finger and lower arms. I would get this on and off and really did not know what this was and just brushed it off but its never left me to this day. Since 45 Ive had very few flushes, but now and again used to have large sweating under my ( large boobs ) which would only last a few minutes at a time, also the odd face flush. My periods were always a bit heavier than usual due to me having the coil ( non hormonal ). I went to see my GP two years ago and for me I beleive that I should have be prescribed HRT due to my symptoms, these were irregular bleeding over 50, brain fog, lack of energy, lower labido, flushes etc. My GP prescribed me with Clonodine Hydrochloride and Prozac. I was not forced by my GP to take the antidepressants but advised they would help with my mood as the hormone tablets would not. Well after a few months I stopped both as for me I felt worse. I plodded along for over a year and a half and my symptoms were getting worse. I don’t suffer with a lot of night sweats, my worst symptoms have been dark scary depressive thoughts ( only twice ) aches from head to toe ( sort of flu
like ) tired all the time, cold hands, mild head aches ( never really suffered headaches in my earlier life) brain fog, vacant hate this feeling when I’m driving as it makes me feel less confident. My libido defo has been effected and never had this before as I’m very much in love with my hubby. I new I had to do something. My mum mentioned a HRT Expert who had been on tv called Dr Louise Newson. I was at my lowest ebb and felt so alone inside. I checked this expert out on
u tube and googled her website and read all about her. Feeling like I had all the nessesary information to challenge my GP I made my appointment. I saw two female GPs who both told me as I was still bleeding ( mine had been all over the place for 2 yrs) they would not prescribe me with HRT. I must admit I felt a bit defeated for a few days but then thought I’m not going to give up so I then saw a male GP even with all my findings he would not prescribe me any HRT as he wanted to do blood test to rule out any other possible reasons, all came back ok, apart one being raised hormones. I then saw another male GP who also did some more blood tests, all ok but he did confirm my blood pressure was high on the day. I said I never normally have higher level, he said he wanted me to do my own BP readings For a week morning and evening and would discuss on my next appointment. My GP said that after his calculations of my BP they were normal and he was willing to prescribe me with HRT , I told him I wanted the patches as reading the HRT expert Dr Louise Newson these had less risks of clots or strokes , my GP granted this and I’m on Evorel patches. I’ve only been on these a few weeks and I’m ok so far but no changes but I know these can take a few months for some people. I will write again in a few months to let you know if I’m making progress with these patches.