With my three DDs there is quite a variance in their ways of parenting and work. DD1 and her DH are both freelance. They share the parenting, with the one who has work going and doing it while the one who hasn't looks after the children.
DD2 worked a 2 hour drive from home which meant a very long working day and hardly any time to see her little DD. Her husband is an actor and when 'resting' was able to look after the little one (very well, might I add). But when he was away working, it was difficult for her to get childcare to cover those long hours. I live a considerable distance from her and was unable to help. She has now decided to be a SAHM and loves it. Does some work at home and gets involved with the school.
Many of you regulars probably know something of DD3's situation as an unsupported single mum. She now runs her own business as well as keeping the very complicated activity life of her boys going. Respect to her! She has no choice in the matter but is permanently exhausted doing it all. At least she has us here to support with childcare: long school holidays, sickness and worst of all those increasingly frequent 'non-student' days, the nightmare of working single parents.
As long as children are loved, cared for and given plenty of stimulus, I can't see how they will suffer whatever the working choices of their parents.
BTW whatever is this latest fad, 'attachment disorder' all about?
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