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Dogs and allergies!

(29 Posts)
Mel2137 Tue 09-Feb-21 21:34:24

Hi, I'm new here and looking forward to getting some of your experiences. My partner and I would both like a dog. My son is all grown up and lives abroad. He visits around twice a year and stays for a month or so. The trouble is that he is allergic to animals. I don't want him not to be able to stay with us and feel comfortable.
My partner hasn't had a child of his own and this dog would mean a lot to him. We are looking at Portuguese Water dogs in the first instance. I've asked my son to find a breeder near him to experiment and see if he reacts. I know this doesn't guarantee anything. My son isn't keen on us getting a dog.
I guess the truth is we should abandon the idea of a dog but I just wondered if anyone had been in the same situation? Are we being selfish if we get a dog? (Be gentle!) Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Dinahmo Sat 20-Feb-21 19:01:32

Cairns are lovely, as are Westies. I've had 2 of each and there coat is better for those with allergies.

MamaCaz Sat 20-Feb-21 19:41:08

If it turns out that your son is badly allergic to your dog (assuming you get one), how will you feel if he no longer visits you?

That, I imagine,is the worst-case scenario, but is a possibility.
Is it worth the risk? Only you can decide.

Sunny82z Tue 23-Feb-21 20:41:35

Had you thought about one of those air purifiers, I am sure there is one designed with pets in mind. I think Dyson do one but it is expensive.