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How do you make long, thick hair, long and sleek, not bushy?

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Genevieve489 Wed 21-Apr-21 11:24:45

I began to grow my hair a couple of years ago and, of course, it turned into lockdown hair and is down to the middle of my back now. I'm lucky in that it's quite thick and I've still got some colour in it, although some of the hair around my face is silver. I've just been looking at the best haircuts for over 50s and the pictures of long hair look lovely. However, if I don't tie it back, because it's thick, it just looks bushy. I'd love to be able to have it long and sleek. Can anyone recommend any shampoos/conditioners/treatments that would achieve this? Or am I asking for the impossible?

Susysue Fri 23-Apr-21 14:14:46

I have same, thick hair with a natural curl. Best investment I made over a year ago was to purchase the Dyson airwrap with the attachments. Absolutely brilliant with some serum applied half way down hair. I know it's extortionate but I paid mine up monthly over a year. Not only does it make hair drying a pleasure, without any need for straighteners but my hair is not only sleek with no fizz but also in great condition. Absolutely no regrets

Rosina Fri 23-Apr-21 14:17:02

Moroccanoil is amazing - and not greasy at all. You need just a tiny spot, and the £30 bottle has lasted us for almost two years - my husband uses it too. Make sure you get the real thing - it's in a brown bottle with a teal/greeny coloured label; the cheaper variants have a large percentage of carrier oil which does not work half as well.

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Lindaa4 Fri 23-Apr-21 16:08:11

3 more inches brand do a pre wash which I leave in overnight. In the morning my hair looks so sleek, not greasy, that I don’t want to wash it!. I do however wash it with their shampoo and conditioner. No sillicones

Paperbackwriter Fri 23-Apr-21 16:13:53

GHD straighteners and Argon oil spray. I have thick hair and it works fine for me.

Blueberry60 Fri 23-Apr-21 17:22:40

Try Elvive 8 second wonder water...made my grey, straw like hair look sleek, shiny and bouncy. Am amazed. Olaplex didn't have that effect despite using the whole range.
Superdrug and Boots sell the wonder water.

Blueberry60 Fri 23-Apr-21 17:23:47

Also much kinder on the purse?

Betty18 Fri 23-Apr-21 18:09:17

Hair straightners? Wouldn’t be without mine

Nicegranny Fri 23-Apr-21 18:19:50

Try taking a silk scarf in the palm of your hand and pull your lovely long hair through it.
I always used this method when I had beautiful thick long hair and it works.

A leave in conditioner.

Babyliss bighair.

JOJO60 Fri 23-Apr-21 19:20:11

I have very thick hair, with a lot of waves, kinks and curly bits. In the days of 'big hair' it looked great. Once that trend ended its been a constant battle to tame it or find a style that 'works' with it. None really do, and I've been to more hairdressers than I can remember. But during lockdown I've finally cracked it. First don't have layers - they only bush out when it's damp or you're feeling hot and sweaty. Second, keep it a bit longer, mine is just below my shoulders in a kind of bob with a loose fringe. The extra length really does add weight to pull it straight. I use a keratin shampoo and conditioner as keratin is supposed to smooth the hair cuticles. I then use a keratin heat defence spray before drying it. I section my hair off, and using a hot brush with a large barrel I dry sections, pulling it straight through the brush, rather than using the brush to 'curl' it. I find this easier than blow drying because there are so many sections it makes my arms ache. Then I straighten each section (not using the highest heat setting) and then I rub a pea sized drop of pure argan oil between my palms and smooth it through that section. I then go onto the next section and repeat the process. It takes me about half an hour to dry all my hair, but it does look smooth and shiny and feels very soft. I only wash my hair once a week and when I'm at home I keep it in a low pony tail as this keeps it 'still' and prevents it springing outwards again. The argan oil may seem expensive but a little goes a long way and its definitely worth it.

Rowena48 Fri 23-Apr-21 19:23:33

GHD straighteners is the way to go with a good protective spray you’ll need clips to hold the rest of your hair up as you need to straighten from bottom layer to top and don’t miss any. Good luck.
GHD are worth every Penny or should l say pound.

moggie57 Fri 23-Apr-21 19:37:08

rainwater and vinegar

Shizam Fri 23-Apr-21 21:06:48

Owner of mad Celtic hair here. Brazilian blow dry works amazingly well to tame locks. But expensive and not sure all the straightening is good for your hair in the long run. Olaplex is another quite good treatment. Again quite pricey at hairdresser. But does work. You can buy online to do home treatment. But not as good as salon. I’ve found not dyeing and washing a lot less helps. Also aveda products. Little bit of brilliant wax, wrap hair up into coils. Leave to dry naturally.

Buffy Sat 24-Apr-21 08:19:58

I spent my whole life wanting long sleek hair and eventually gave up and had it cut short. Would you believe it, at my advanced age I have found a wonderful hairdresser who understands my hair. I only ever wash it at night, leave it to dry naturally and the next day it is always sleek and just the way I always wanted it. Only trouble is it’s 60 years too late for me.

Sputnik Sat 24-Apr-21 12:34:24

I've had bushy unmanageable hair all my life; it wasn't until a trip to Morocco 2 years ago that I discovered Argan Oil. Now I get it from Amazon, £10 gets you a big bottle that lasts 6 months or more. There are several firms offering the oil; I use a German one. A few spritzes on wet hair after washing once or twice a week, hey presto! Hair is tamed.

Genevieve489 Sun 25-Apr-21 11:25:30

There are so many suggestions here - thank you everybody for your replies.

Yorki Wed 28-Apr-21 21:35:30

Geneveive.. You need a leave in conditioner, one you DON'T rinse out. You'll get a damped down sleek look minus the bushing out . I have used normal conditioner after first drying my hair, to flatten out my fly away hair bushy hair, it tames it down.. Try it!!!

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