I read the OP, and it sounded to me as if untold pressure was put on life partners to keep someone with Alzheimers at home, whatever the circumstance.
I then watched the advert when it was linked, and commented again.
'Ah thanks, must say it is very moving (and yes I shed a tear).
But for the grace ...
I do hope that if and when, I shall have the courage to make the right choice'
Did you not see my second post? And the next about my dear brother?
Our Welfare State. Is it broken?
NHS U turn on trans terminology
Forgetting where you left your keys does not mean you are “losing it”