Hello forestgirl, I truly feel for you with your difficult daughter issues as I have a very difficult daughter of my own. It seems to me that your daughter wants to have her cake and eat it. As I see it she wants you to take the children away to the cottage for the half term holiday, but is being difficult about looking after the horse(s) because she wants to go to a party which is out of the area. Whilst I appreciate that it is nice for parents to get a break sometimes and engage in activities that are child free, if the usual deal is that you take the children to the cottage and she looks after the horse in return, then really I feel she should honour that. However, maybe she would be willing to compromise, I know to my cost that not all are, but maybe she could go to the party and you take care of the children for a night or two at your home or at her home. That way you could continue to care for your horse, but she must care for her own children during the half term holiday. However, both you and the children would lose the opportunity to spend half term at the cottage. I don't know if that would work or not. Whatever you decide to do, I feel for you. Good luck, and take care of yourself.
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