My adult married daughter (41) is assertive and legal (she's a non practicing solicitor atm). I have always tried to accept her difficult and very different personality.
However, she is currently very judgemental of me and how I'm trying to help my very ill niece, who has terminal cancer with a 2 year old daughter and unsupportive husband. Her mum- my sister- is out of contact and has mental health issues.
I'm a widow of 7 years. My daughter rarely invites me over, just mainly to babysit. When I've gone over to babysit, no food is offered. I'm rarely asked to join the family when they go out for lunch and never for holidays.
Her husband has previously complained to me about her. Her in-laws, who live abroad, have also complained about her coldness to her face and to me. They ssid she neglects her husband, but I defended her as my daughter.
I'm desperate to confront her, as she hurt me yesterday by twisting my intentions to help my niece- said I should keep out of their business. Said I should look to my own family, who she thinks is dysfunctional. My son - her brother- also finds her difficult and touchy.
There are so nany instances of being slighted by her.
I've always tried to be non confrontationa and understanding, but feel the need to defend myself and tell her how I feet about her remarks & attitude towards me.
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Good Morning Saturday 27th April 2024
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