Some of you will be aware that my mum and I have had a 'difficult' relationship and didn't communicate for 6 years but for about the past 5 years I have tried to do my best for her - mainly to maintain a relationship with my brothers.
Mum has moved care homes three times recently and each successive move has meant getting rid of more and more of her stuff. As we are now getting to the 'good stuff' we thought we'd better check who was getting what in the will written in 1999 (before we fell out). Both my brothers are executors.
Mum has left her silver, Crown Derby other ornaments, various bits of furniture, eternity ring etc to individual people and her engagement ring to my younger brother's ex-girlfriend (he's been married for 26 years) who now lives in Australia and hasn't seen Mum since she left the UK.
I have been left 'which of my remaining chattels as she would like to choose'.
I'm not sure why I'm so upset considering her history of disliking me and mine but AIBU to not feel like visiting her at the moment?
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