How can life chuck so much at you sewsilver, you must be asking yourself that I'm sure. What an absolutely impossible situation for you and your DH. All I can send is my hope that you can get mobile soon - do you have friends or family nearby who can visit you and your DH to try and keep your spirits up?
You are perfectly entitled to feel extremely sorry for yourself, I'm sending ((((hugs)))) and very best wishes
Painting Warhammer miniatures dwarfs/Elf's etc. Old World
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages