Just to clarify, I chose to put this under AIBU not Pedants' Corner or any other heading because I wondered whether I was. While I am perfectly well aware that words change their meaning with time, I still think of pride in its traditional form – "high or overweening opinion of one's own qualities, attainments or estate; inordinate self-esteem". (OED) Hardly, surprisingly, no one has admitted to feeling this way or to extending such a feeling to other areas of their lives, such as their children.
In fact, it is clear that most posters regard pride, whether in themselves, their families or, in a few cases, in their countries, as a positive rather than negative emotion, encompassing respect and admiration as well as a level of self-satisfaction. It seems, therefore, what used to be called "proper pride" to distinguish it from the seven deadly sins type of pride has superseded the main definition of pride in the majority of minds so deliberately not to use it in that way is probably wilful and, indeed, unreasonable.
I am sorry that some posters dismissed my post as "bollocks" and "silly" and advised that I "should get a life" we should "shut the fuck up". I am surprised and slightly hurt that my genuine but harmless query should provoke such an aggressive response and unpleasant language.
To go through chemo therapy or choose not to?
The majority of Israeli Jews do not want to occupy Gaza.
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.