Untidy Grumps

I think you all must be saints to put up with what you do !
I divorced 10 years ago as I refused to spend another minute feeling desperately miserable . I just wish I had done it sooner . We did split up ( my instigation) six months before but he promised to change so I reluctantly had him back , it took about 2 weeks for things to go back to how it was so I packed my bags and left.

I love being single and I don`t want another relationship ever . I can do what I want when I want to , don`t cook if I don`t feel like it . The house is clean and tidy with no piles of stuff everywhere which couldn`t be moved because he was about to deal with them but never did . I don`t have to put up with his constant put downs or sarcasm . The only problem is that I have been affected by his negativity and still suffer from a severe lack of confidence in social situations but in general I am so much happier .