Feeling a little uncomfortable about all this virtue signalling

Just to put another point of view across; I have two friends whose lives are reflected by their FB posts. If they go for a walk they post the photographs, if family visit I see the photo's, if they're eating in or eating out - up go the photo's. Their lives are like an ongoing documentary and they both have huge followings so each post generates a lot of traffic - and if they were doing something for others it would be up there for all to see - and yes, would generate lots of 'well done hun' type responses. Maybe the people mentioned here are similar.

This year I've seen quite a few people announcing on fb that as of next year they will no longer be sending cards but will make a donation to charity instead.

If it's 'like for like,' unless they have a very long Christmas card list I doubt it will be a very generous donation and is more likely an excuse for CBA.

Completely agree with you OP. Our village has its own Facebook page and on Christmas Day there were 2 posts of similar ilk. One actually posted a photograph of the joint of ham "marinated in cider and honey and slow roasted", and asked for details of "where the homeless people are so I can take it to them". They could have taken it straight to the food bank and said nothing but then no one would have known about their good deed, would they?

Thanks BlueBelle. I joined facebook after I retired and found it's been great for keeping up with relatives who live out of the Uk. I've discovered some cousins and their adult children and been surprised and pleased to find we have interests in common. I've picked up various buggies and toys for our grandchildren free or cheap, donated all kinds of things which local folks have been pleased to collect. I don't have friends who say 'well done hun' though I do have friends who take part in various fund raising runs/walks which I may or may not donate to.

Fb has been good for me I have organised a reunion and met many many school friends through it I would have had no chance of ever finding them without FB ....I buy and sell the grandkids surplus toys books etc without fees and I ring my son and family in NZ every weekend totally free thanks to fb Of course it depends what friends you have on your account and what pages or groups you belong to
I certainly agree with the original post but I don’t think’ that just happens on fb and I have seen all the sycophantic ‘well done hun’ posts and I m not comfortable with them either but they are only a small part unless you visit lots of loc al groups away from your friends and relatives

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My travel insurance expired after a birthday and now I am looking for a new one which will not charge an arm or a leg and will not expect me to jump through their hoops just because I am getting older. I am not likely to dive from balconies, nor need hospital treatment because I swam after drinking too much.

I think Facebook is only about bloody showing off all the time!!

Totally agree gill re taking cooked food directly to the homeless & the inappropriateness of the 8 year old mother’s behaviour.

But.... there is an argument for raising awareness via social media.
If you donate to a charity via Justgiving, eg someone you know is running a marathon in aid of something, at the end of the process you’ll be asked to share it on FB and/or Twitter, on the grounds that statistically, every shared story results in a 50% increase in donations, or something like that.
Sometimes I do and sometimes I don’t. If I do, I tend to get told off by MrA for ‘virtue signalling’

Yes. To put it on fb is glory hunting.

I know at least two people who make sure I know what they give to or do for charity. I always wonder why they don’t just do it and keep quiet.

I can't stand that sort of thing..

Well said.

I totally agree Gill and it’s not just on FB either.