Oopsadaisy12 I can see your experience was totally different and must have been very stressful. I do hope your DGD is thriving now. I agree, we do not know enough about the circumstances of OP's new GD. However the mention of the two women going out suggests their experience is far from the very difficult and demanding experience you had.
Peardrop50 makes a very relevant and encouraging observation.
Being quizzed by chemist's assistant in Boots.
Nicola Sturgeon’s husband re-arrested
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic