Yes i agree with others- youve just lost your mum,youve a lot on youre plate right now.I know, i lost my mum almost 21 years ago and still miss her terribly.But please dont make any rash descisions regarding your hubby.youve enough to handle without a split/divorce as well! Its possible he thought he was geniunely helping,as he knew youve a lot on and may not have had time or inclination to get around to repairing dog bed too.lets face it how often have we all said "ill get round to it" over something but never really had time?Or even felt up to it?Is it the last straw as he doesnt appear to be helping you with real stuff you need help with from him,like your mums death&probate etc?Give him a second chance- Tell him he has to go out& replace dog bed with a new one,out of his own pocket- and the dog might thank you for it too!Then calmly thank him when hes got it.And sit down and ask him for any real help you need from him right now.Let him help you,as it doesnt get easier so soon after bereavement.But later on if YOU think you need it,then seek out a bereavement counsellor,and if you need him ask your hubby to go with you.Dont rush into anything.And dont let it overwelm you.