Firstly, I'm sorry that you've had a lot on your plate recently and I hope you have people you can talk you through it and give ongoing support
Secondly, I think that your anger re the dog-bed is partly fuelled by your angst at losing your mother, which is natural.
Have you got a dog and does it have a new bed? If so, I can see that having 2 in a small space might be unworkable.
I think the crux of the matter is your recent bereavement and you can see that as a double loss because of a well loved mother...and the loss of an item which became a familiar part of your home.
Men often don't get attached to items in the home, not like we women. Forgive him and explain the loss to you, was more than just a tatty dog bed.
Be kind to yourself and good wishes going forward.
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