My ex-son-in-law recently sent over £12,000 to Africa, because his new 'bride-to-be' Julia needed the money to leave there to come and be with him. 'She' had sent photos, and he had spoken to her on the phone, however, after two minutes searching on the internet we found this same woman to actually be a model who has this happen to her constantly.
Her photos are so popular in scams that she has a webpage stating in big bold letters, plus a video of her stating that she never talks to men online, and everything she is booked in is done through her agent because of said scams.
Did this help us with my ex SIL?? did it heck. He is nearly 60, a clever man, has worked his whole life, yet he truly believes everything he gets sent, and you answer to one scam, and this opens the world up to a host of others.
He has sent so much money now to women hoping that he will meet 'the one' by doing this.
No amount of proof works, there is always a clever answer, a reason that it cannot be so, until we had to give up. He has lost his childrens love and respect over this because he has shunned them to keep talking to his new 'friends', whom have all told him that they will pay him back a hundred times over.
I have no idea where this will land him, all I know is is that you can only do so much when those you care for believe strangers and websites over family. It caused my grandaughter a whole heap of pain and agony, as she hated seeing him being taken for a ride, but alas, he told her that she was simply jealous he had found happiness. Sometimes, when people are falling, you either have to let them fall, or get crushed in the process. We have to let him fall now. Its sad, and hurts, but some folk just cannot see the woods for the trees.